Daily Wisdom Words

ELUSIVENESS

ELUSIVENESS

WHAT DOES ELUSIVENESS MEAN?  SOMETIMES, SOMETHING SEEMS LIKE A MYSTERY TO US.  WE TRY TO FIGURE OUT SOMETHING THAT ELUDES US, AND CAN’T.  LET US START WITH THE WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE MEANING OF ELISIVENES AS WELL AS THE DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION. 

WEBSTER’S MEANING OF ELUSIVENESS-1.  SOMETHING HARD TO CATCH OR ACHIEVE. 

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION OF ELUSIVENESS-1.  SOMETHING WE CAN TOUCH BUT CAN’T HOLD ONTO. 

THERE ARE MANY TIMES I HAVE FELT ELUSIVENESS.  THERE ARE FEW THINGS THAT ARE MORE FRUSTRATING THAN THE FEELING OF ELUSIVENESS. 

I HAVE HAD GOALS IN MY LIFE THAT I JUST CAN’T HAVEN’T QUITE ACHIEVED.  I HAVE GIVEN IT ALL I HAD TO GIVE BUT THIS GOAL I CAN’T SEEM TO ACHIEVE.  ELUSIVENESS CAN ALSO BE A QUALITY IN SOMEONE THAT WE LOOK AT AND JUST CAN’T FIGURE OUT.  IT MAKES THE PERSON SEEM ALMOST MYSTERIOUS, BUT IT IS ELUSIVENESS IN THE PERSON THAT KEEPS US FROM FIGURING OUT WHAT IT IS THAT MAKES THEM SPECIAL OR HARD TO FIGURE OUT.  THEY SIMPLY ARE A MYSTERY.  WHEN I THINK OF ELUSIVENESS, I THINK OF A MAN I DATED OFF AND ON FOR QUITE SOME TIME.   

I WILL NEVER FORGET HIM OR HIS ELUSIVENESS.  WEEKLY, HE WOULD TRAVEL TO CALIFORNIA.  MOST OF MY QUESTIONS SUCH AS “WHAT KIND OF WORK DO YOU DO WHEN IN CALIFORNIA?’  HIS ANSWER WOULD BE THE SAME EACH TIME.  “SAMANTHA DEAR, I DON’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT THAT RIGHT NOW”. LE’T TALK ABOUT YOU.”  IT KEPT ME ALWAYS GUESSING. 

I FELT I WOULD “ALMOST” KNOW HIM, THEN HE WOULD DO SOMETHING THAT WOULD BE LEAST EXPECTED IF HIS PERSONALITY THE WAY I ASSUMED.  THIS MADE HIM ELUSIVE, AND MYSTERIOUS.  IT WAS NOT A GAME HE PLAYED BECAUSE HE WANTED TO BE MIF IYSTERIOUS.  HE WOULD ANSWER THE QUESTIONS I ASKED, THEN CHANGE OF SUBJECT.  THIS WAS A CLEAR CASE OF HIS ELUSITIVITY.  HE KEPT THIS EVASIVE AND ELUSIVE PERSONALITY FOR YEARS AND I ONLY CONTINUED TO STAY INTERESTED FOR YEARS.

I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT HE’D BEGIN TO TRUST ME AND SHARE MORE OF HIS LIFE BUT IT NEVER REALLY HAPPENED. I REMAINED SO ATTRACTED TO HIM AND THIS ELUSIVE NESS FOR YEARS.  WE WOULD CONTINUE THIS PATTERN FOR YEARS.   ONE DAY WE WENT OUT WITH ANOTHER COUPLE HE KNEW, AND HIS FRIEND’S WIFE AND I REMAINED FRIENDS FOR YEARS.  WHEN I DID NOT HEAR FROM BRUCE FOR QUITE A WHILE, I ASKED HER HOW BRUCE WAS.  APPARENTLY, HE BUMPED INTO HIS SECOND GRADE GIRLFRIEND AND THEY HAD RECONNECTED.  I HEARD BRUCE MARRIED HER.  HOPEFULLY YOU NOW SEE NOT ONLY ELUSITIVITY BUT HOW HE WAS ALSO SOMETHING “JUST OUT OF TOUCH.”  LIFE MOVES ON, AND THE LAST FIVE YEARS SINCE I LAST SAW BRUCE HAVE FLOWN.  PHRASES LIKE, “ONE DAY” OR “SOME DAY” ARE PHRASES WE USE THAT ARE ABOUT DREAMING, AND NOT ABOUT REALITY.  THOSE WERE TWO OF THE PHRASES I OFTEN HEARD INSTILLING FALSE EXPECTATIONS.  HAVE A GREAT DAY…SAMANTHA/FOUNDER     DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM

 

Samantha Leboeuf-founder/daily wisdom words, LLC
Founder: Daily Wisdom Words, LLC. I love Poetry and am an Author as well.   There is a lot of meaning in the title of my book, Daily Wisdom Words, Volume l. My previous experience is in Sales and Marketing. Previously, I was in charge of Development through the Marketing and Sales of New Homes' in new home communities for close to 20 years.  I was a licensed Real Estate Broker selling/listing homes in the Colorado market.  While doing this, I hosted a cable network show called, "From Trees to Keys", my portion for Colorado Living Inc.. I enjoyed creating interview questions, working for Developers of New Home Communities, hosting Live on actual construction sites, describing and displaying on television camera various stages of construction as the home was built from start to finish. I interviewed various land developers, New Home Builders, Real Estate Brokers, and other people in the Real Estate Business for one year. Previous Experience: I was licensed through the "Securities and Exchange Commission" as a Principal for Limited Partnerships and sold them as well. I held a Series 22, 63, as well as License, to manage a brokerage firm called a series 39. I enjoyed running a small branch office of an Oil and Gas Company in Colorado for approximately one year. Hobbies: I have always loved Poetry and Writing.  I was declared "Permanently Disabled" due to Breast Cancer and CRPS-(Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome).  I began focusing on my writing. I volunteered for an online poetry community,  "Realistic Poetry" for approximately six months. I decided to start Daily Wisdom Words, LLC after volunteering for an online poetry community and thinking of ways that I would improve this concept and offer something for every KIND of #Writer:  Authors, Bloggers, Poets, Songwriters, Original Quote Creatives, and short story writers. I have two grown children, a son, 33, and a daughter 31,  who lives in Idaho with her husband. They have a son, my first grandchild who will be three years old, soon!  They welcomed their second child, Easton Jay into the world, 5/4//2021. Updates are necessary as my son is now married to my lovely daughter-in-law who is awesome.  She just gave birth to their first son on 5/5/2021, who is so beautiful having the name Logan James Leboeuf. This is her and my son's first child.  Hard to believe their child has a birthday one day ahead of my daughter and son-in-law's second child, Little E.  So exciting!!  I love children! Thanks so much for reading!  We humbly love this community and the members who are part of it. We think of ourselves as a family, and every member makes up part of it.  Please view our website, dailywisdomwords.com fully as it is constantly changing!!  We are always adding new prompts, and new content, and are so very proud to be debuting with our first podcast, "Daily Wisdom Words Podcast."  Episode #101 with Dr. Dream, Kelly Sullivan Walden.  She will be our first guest.  Please watch as it airs 6/12/2021 June 12, 2021 9:00 am pacific time.  Thank you in advance if you are new to daily wisdom words, and welcome to the family. Samantha LeBoeuf
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