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ELUSIVENESS

ELUSIVENESS

WHAT DOES ELUSIVENESS MEAN?  SOMETIMES, SOMETHING SEEMS LIKE A MYSTERY TO US.  WE TRY TO FIGURE OUT SOMETHING THAT ELUDES US, AND CAN’T.  LET US START WITH THE WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE MEANING OF ELISIVENES AS WELL AS THE DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION. 

WEBSTER’S MEANING OF ELUSIVENESS-1.  SOMETHING HARD TO CATCH OR ACHIEVE. 

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION OF ELUSIVENESS-1.  SOMETHING WE CAN TOUCH BUT CAN’T HOLD ONTO. 

THERE ARE MANY TIMES I HAVE FELT ELUSIVENESS.  THERE ARE FEW THINGS THAT ARE MORE FRUSTRATING THAN THE FEELING OF ELUSIVENESS. 

I HAVE HAD GOALS IN MY LIFE THAT I JUST CAN’T HAVEN’T QUITE ACHIEVED.  I HAVE GIVEN IT ALL I HAD TO GIVE BUT THIS GOAL I CAN’T SEEM TO ACHIEVE.  ELUSIVENESS CAN ALSO BE A QUALITY IN SOMEONE THAT WE LOOK AT AND JUST CAN’T FIGURE OUT.  IT MAKES THE PERSON SEEM ALMOST MYSTERIOUS, BUT IT IS ELUSIVENESS IN THE PERSON THAT KEEPS US FROM FIGURING OUT WHAT IT IS THAT MAKES THEM SPECIAL OR HARD TO FIGURE OUT.  THEY SIMPLY ARE A MYSTERY.  WHEN I THINK OF ELUSIVENESS, I THINK OF A MAN I DATED OFF AND ON FOR QUITE SOME TIME.   

I WILL NEVER FORGET HIM OR HIS ELUSIVENESS.  WEEKLY, HE WOULD TRAVEL TO CALIFORNIA.  MOST OF MY QUESTIONS SUCH AS “WHAT KIND OF WORK DO YOU DO WHEN IN CALIFORNIA?’  HIS ANSWER WOULD BE THE SAME EACH TIME.  “SAMANTHA DEAR, I DON’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT THAT RIGHT NOW”. LE’T TALK ABOUT YOU.”  IT KEPT ME ALWAYS GUESSING. 

I FELT I WOULD “ALMOST” KNOW HIM, THEN HE WOULD DO SOMETHING THAT WOULD BE LEAST EXPECTED IF HIS PERSONALITY THE WAY I ASSUMED.  THIS MADE HIM ELUSIVE, AND MYSTERIOUS.  IT WAS NOT A GAME HE PLAYED BECAUSE HE WANTED TO BE MIF IYSTERIOUS.  HE WOULD ANSWER THE QUESTIONS I ASKED, THEN CHANGE OF SUBJECT.  THIS WAS A CLEAR CASE OF HIS ELUSITIVITY.  HE KEPT THIS EVASIVE AND ELUSIVE PERSONALITY FOR YEARS AND I ONLY CONTINUED TO STAY INTERESTED FOR YEARS.

I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT HE’D BEGIN TO TRUST ME AND SHARE MORE OF HIS LIFE BUT IT NEVER REALLY HAPPENED. I REMAINED SO ATTRACTED TO HIM AND THIS ELUSIVE NESS FOR YEARS.  WE WOULD CONTINUE THIS PATTERN FOR YEARS.   ONE DAY WE WENT OUT WITH ANOTHER COUPLE HE KNEW, AND HIS FRIEND’S WIFE AND I REMAINED FRIENDS FOR YEARS.  WHEN I DID NOT HEAR FROM BRUCE FOR QUITE A WHILE, I ASKED HER HOW BRUCE WAS.  APPARENTLY, HE BUMPED INTO HIS SECOND GRADE GIRLFRIEND AND THEY HAD RECONNECTED.  I HEARD BRUCE MARRIED HER.  HOPEFULLY YOU NOW SEE NOT ONLY ELUSITIVITY BUT HOW HE WAS ALSO SOMETHING “JUST OUT OF TOUCH.”  LIFE MOVES ON, AND THE LAST FIVE YEARS SINCE I LAST SAW BRUCE HAVE FLOWN.  PHRASES LIKE, “ONE DAY” OR “SOME DAY” ARE PHRASES WE USE THAT ARE ABOUT DREAMING, AND NOT ABOUT REALITY.  THOSE WERE TWO OF THE PHRASES I OFTEN HEARD INSTILLING FALSE EXPECTATIONS.  HAVE A GREAT DAY…SAMANTHA/FOUNDER     DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM

 

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