What does the word Sonder mean and how do we use it in our English Vocabulary?

Let us first take a look at the Webster Dictionary meaning of Sonder and go from there.  Sonder:  1.  The realization that each passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own–populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines worries, and inherited craziness-2.  an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an ant hill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear in only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic, passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk

Daily Wisdom Word Definition-1.  The idea that our one existence as an individual is not dynamic in the way that we are living.  There are many other people living the same kind of life.  2.  The idea that our life is not as important when you look at the overall scheme of things.

How do we use sonder in a sentence?  Well, since it is a noun, we could say something like this:  “My life seems less meaningful when I realize the sonder in this world.”

We want to expand our vocabulary to be the best Poets we can be so it is very important to challenge ourselves with new words and new definitions to write the most in depth Poetry possible.

To think of the meaning of sonder in a way, makes us feel small.  We almost feel like an ant living with other ants on this planet.  There are billions of human beings on this earth, and we are just one of them.  Think about the last time you walked down a busy street and thought of that.  We don’t realize how very caught up in our lives we are, and we don’t think of sonder when looking at the other individuals walking with us.

Notice I am being very careful “how” I use this word in a sentence as I am honestly not sure what the plural is for the word or if it is plural in its vocabulary meaning alone.  Just remember that to sonder is to speculate about the fact that we are just one of many on this earth.

After all, since we so rarely think this way, it is interesting to realize this.  There is another way to think of it according to the meaning I have up at the top of the page. When we look at a doorway, there are also many other doorways to look at, and there is not just one of them either.  This of course would be with anything, from what I can gather from the word’s definition.

It is also interesting to note that I found this word on google in an article titled, “32 of the top beautiful words in the English Language”.

I have a spell check built into this program and it is interesting to note that when I spell out sonder, the computer program claims it is spelled inaccurately.  However, I can assure you it is a word, and I will be fascinated how you will use this word within your Poetry today.

Thank you so much for reading about Sonder today, and I hope you have a beautiful and blessed day.

Samantha Leboeuf



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Founder: Daily Wisdom Words, LLC. I love Poetry and am an Author as well.   There is a lot of meaning in the title of my book, Daily Wisdom Words, Volume l. My previous experience is in Sales and Marketing. Previously, I was in charge of Development through the Marketing and Sales of New Homes' in new home communities for close to 20 years.  I was a licensed Real Estate Broker selling/listing homes in the Colorado market.  While doing this, I hosted a cable network show called, "From Trees to Keys", my portion for Colorado Living Inc.. I enjoyed creating interview questions, working for Developers of New Home Communities, hosting Live on actual construction sites, describing and displaying on television camera various stages of construction as the home was built from start to finish. I interviewed various land developers, New Home Builders, Real Estate Brokers, and other people in the Real Estate Business for one year. Previous Experience: I was licensed through the "Securities and Exchange Commission" as a Principal for Limited Partnerships and sold them as well. I held a Series 22, 63, as well as License, to manage a brokerage firm called a series 39. I enjoyed running a small branch office of an Oil and Gas Company in Colorado for approximately one year. Hobbies: I have always loved Poetry and Writing.  I was declared "Permanently Disabled" due to Breast Cancer and CRPS-(Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome).  I began focusing on my writing. I volunteered for an online poetry community,  "Realistic Poetry" for approximately six months. I decided to start Daily Wisdom Words, LLC after volunteering for an online poetry community and thinking of ways that I would improve this concept and offer something for every KIND of #Writer:  Authors, Bloggers, Poets, Songwriters, Original Quote Creatives, and short story writers. I have two grown children, a son, 33, and a daughter 31,  who lives in Idaho with her husband. They have a son, my first grandchild who will be three years old, soon!  They welcomed their second child, Easton Jay into the world, 5/4//2021. Updates are necessary as my son is now married to my lovely daughter-in-law who is awesome.  She just gave birth to their first son on 5/5/2021, who is so beautiful having the name Logan James Leboeuf. This is her and my son's first child.  Hard to believe their child has a birthday one day ahead of my daughter and son-in-law's second child, Little E.  So exciting!!  I love children! Thanks so much for reading!  We humbly love this community and the members who are part of it. We think of ourselves as a family, and every member makes up part of it.  Please view our website, fully as it is constantly changing!!  We are always adding new prompts, and new content, and are so very proud to be debuting with our first podcast, "Daily Wisdom Words Podcast."  Episode #101 with Dr. Dream, Kelly Sullivan Walden.  She will be our first guest.  Please watch as it airs 6/12/2021 June 12, 2021 9:00 am pacific time.  Thank you in advance if you are new to daily wisdom words, and welcome to the family. Samantha LeBoeuf
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3 years ago

#SONDER Life goes by and im aware of so many other lives going on around me, without a care. Inwonder where theyvare gping, whats their destination? What is their fit in this world? There are mo rights, no wrongs. Some lives are short, some long. Lives happening in parallel, some choices provide heaven, some send you to hell. As i sit in this cafe, atbthe window. Watching all the souls below. I revel in the variety of Sonder on display. I feel a little bit uncertain and a bit in disarray. Each unique story being told, life being lived and… Read more »

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