VOLATILITY

Today’s daily wisdom word is volatility.  What creates this. kind of reaction, volatility?  Volatility happens when a person has little or no control over their “reactions”.  This personality trait occurs when someone reacts to anger, instead of responds.  There is a big difference.  When we are angry most of us do respond. Volatility occurs when we REACT without thinking.  It is an indicator of a personality that sometimes can lead to violence.  We will now take a look at the definition of volatility;  first in our Webster Dictionary and then the daily wisdom words definition. 

Webster definition of volatility-1. Liability to change rapidly and unpredictably, especially for the worse.  

Daily Wisdom Words meaning of volatility-a reaction to anger that can escalate to physical and emotional abuse.

Someone who is emotionally volatile has a strong reaction to everything, even small things.  Around these individuals regularly, it can feel very uncomfortable like you are walking on eggshells.  It is hard to know what will set this person off.  You don’t feel easy being around these people, because you do not know what will set them off.  It is also hard to be vulnerable with them sharing your most intimate feelings. This can be a serious problem because without vulnerability one can’t be completely intimate with their partner.  For example, volatile individuals, because they are easily triggered, can use your vulnerability as an actual weapon against you bringing it up at times to justify their anger.   

The tiniest of things can set these individuals off.  Even though we may love this person, we eventually will feel some form of wanting to escape this kind of relationship.  You can simply be explaining how you’re feeling and volatile individuals will take this personally.  Sometimes it is best to end the conversation to stop the triggering of this reaction.  It may be best to avoid them altogether.  A healthy, rounded individual who is in a relationship, takes time before responding in disagreements.  Volatile individuals are not capable of doing this.  One thing to look for is anxiety in an individual and a short fuse when anything remotely troubling is happening.  I hope all people who read this will be weary of volatile individuals when delving into a serious relationship.  They are also emotionally abusive which can escalate to physical violence.  

Since volatility is one trait of abusers, there is often regret and apologies after they react instead of respond.  Thanks so much for reading today about this.  It is something often not seen until it is too late.  Samantha Leboeuf/DWW       I love comments and feedback.  scroll down beneath this article after reading and “join the discussion”.  I am available always to respond as soon as I am able.  We also offer counseling to our members overseen by Dr. Shanni Dover, retired psychologist.  Her articles are wonderful and she is also available from 3-6pm pacific time after she publishes it under our “Wise Advice” page every Sunday.  She can direct you to our mental health advocates who are available via email and phone for appointments.  Please take time to read the 10 reasons to join our Writers Community!  We would love to have you be a part of our family.

 

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