distrust

CREDIBILITY ” DO YOU FIND YOURSELF JUDGING OTHERS?”

by

OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY IS CREDIBILITY.  CREDIBILITY IN OTHERS IS ALWAYS BEING TESTED.  WE ARE NOT USUALLY CONSCIOUS OF IT, BUT OUR MIND IS ASSESSING BELIEVABILITY, BODY LANGUAGE, EYE  CONTACT MADE. AND MUCH MORE IS ALWAYS BEING SIZED UP WHEN WE ARE DETERMINING CREDIBILITY.  JUST AS OTHERS ARE DECIDING HOW MUCH CREDIBILITY A PERSON THEY ARE INTERACTING WITH HAS WHEN WE INITIALLY INTERACT WE ARE DOING THE SAME. 

THE AMOUNT OF CREDIBILITY AND AUTHENTICITY WE HAVE IN OTHERS IS DETERMINED EITHER OVER TIME EVEN WHEN MEETING BRIEFLY FROM BOTH PARTIES..  IT DOES NOT MATTER IF WE ARE INTERACTING ONLY ONCE, OR GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE OVER TIME, WE ARE DETERMINING TRUST AND INTEGRITY ISSUES BY MEASURING OTHERS CREDIBILITY.   THINK ABOUT HOW WE FEEL WHEN WE MEET SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT LOOK US DIRECTLY IN THE EYE.  WE ARE LOOKING AT THEIR SINCERITY THROUGH NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION THEY SHOW  WITH VERBAL AND NONVERBAL CUES, HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT US.  THE MORE ANALYTICAL OR SKEPTICAL WE ARE, THE MORE WE ARE ASCERTAINING CREDIBILITY. 

THERE IS ALSO SKEPTICISM THAT PLAYS A ROLE IN DETERMINING ONE’S CREDIBILITY FROM OTHERS. THE MORE SKEPTICAL WE ARE, THE MORE WE ARE ANALYZING ONE’S CREDIBILITY.  IN ORDER TO DETERMINE OVERALL TRUST FACTORS  WE USE ONE’S CREDIBILITY TO DETERMINE IF WE WILL INTERACT FURTHER WITH THEM WHETHER WE ARE DECIDING TO DO BUSINESS WITH THEM OR AS WE GET  TO KNOW THEM BETTER. WHEN WE ARE GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE ROMANTICALLY, WE ALSO ARE DECIDING IF WE TRUST THEM AND WANT TO GET TO KNOW THEM BETTER.  LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE WEBSTER MEANING AND DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION.  WEBSTER MEANING, CREDIBILITY-THE QUALITY OF BEING TRUSTED AND BELIEVED.

DAILY WISDOM WORD MEANING-A FEELING WE MAY OR NOT BE AWARE OF OUR ASSESSMENT OF TRUST. DETERMINED BY CREDIBILITY. 

HAVE YOU EVER NOTICED THAT SOMEONE WHO IS DISHONEST GIVES THEMSELVES AWAY OVER TIME?  THIS HAPPENS OFTEN BECAUSE WHAT THEY SAY IN ONE CONVERSATION IS OFTEN CONTRADICTED BY A LATER ONE.  PEOPLE DO GIVE THEMSELVES AWAY EVENTUALLY IF THEY ARE NOT AUTHENTIC.  FOR EXAMPLE, WE CATCH THEM IN A TINY LIE OR THEY SHOW BEHAVIOR WHICH DOESN’T MATCH WHAT THEY SAY.  MOST OF US JUDGE ANOTHER’S CREDIBILITY BY NONVERBAL CUES MORE THAN WORDS.  IF THESE VERBAL AND NON-VERBAL CUES DO NOT MATCH OVER A GIVEN PERIOD, THE TRUST WE’D LIKE TO FEEL IS NOT PRESENT. 

HAVE YOU EVER NOTICED OTHERS WHO ARE NOT AUTHENTIC GIVE THEMSELVES AWAY OVER TIME?  THIS IS BECAUSE PART OF THEIR PERSONA IS FALSE AND THIS DETERMINES THEIR TRUE INTENTIONS.  SOME OF US FEEL BROKEN AND STOP TRUSTING OURSELVES WHEN WE INCORRECTLY EVALUATE HONESTY AND INTEGRITY.  HOWEVER, IT HAPPENS TO ALL OF US  WHEN ASSESSING OTHERS.  SOMETIMES WE GET PLEASANTLY SURPRISED, BUT MOST OFTEN WE ARE CREATURES OF HABIT THEMSELVES AND GIVE QUESTIONABLE INTENTIONS AND LACK OF SINCERITY AWAY OVER TIME.  THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING ABOUT THE IMPORTANCE OF CREDIBILITY AND HOW IT IS RELATED TO OUR TRUST IN ANOTHER.   HAVE A BEAUTIFUL AND PLEASANT DAY.  SAMANTHA

ARE YOU A MEMBER OF OUR INTERNATIONAL WRITER’S COMMUNITY, DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM?  RIGHT NOW, FOR $10, YOU CAN JOIN FOR A LIFETIME.  THERE ARE NO MONTHLY DUES.  WE MAKE A PROMISE WITH OUR WEBSITE.  USE ALL THE TOOLS WE OFFER YOU, AND YOU WILL BECOME A BETTER WRITER!  THROUGH DAILY LIVE PROMPTS, A COMMUNITY WRITING PAGE FOR ALL, OUR MUSIC PROMP EVERY WEEKEND, ALSO LIVE WITH MONDAY, OUR WONDERFUL HOST OUT OF NIGERIA, DISCOUNTED WRITING SERVICES FOR MEMBERS (AUTHORS, POETS AND OTHER WRITERS), FREE ADVOCATE COUNSELING FOR MEMBERS SUFFERING FROM ISSUES OF ANY KIND,  AND UPLIFTING, EDUCATIONAL ARTICLES DESIGNED TO BE INTERACTIVE SO YOU CAN PARTICIPATE WITH COMMENTS, OPINIONS, AND SUGGESTIONS, WISE POETS AND AUTHORS OF PAST AND PRESENT WRITTEN BY SHIRLEY MANDEL SATTERFIELD, AN AWARD-WINNING WRITER, OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD BLOG FOR EXPANSION OF VOCABULARY, A PERSONAL MEDIA PROFILE PAGE AND FINALLY, AN ABILITY LIKE FACEBOOK TO CONNECT WITH OTHER MEMBERS WHOSE PROFILES WE FEEL WE’D WOJLD LIKE TO GET TO KNOW, AND ABILITY TO POST ON TWITTER, FACEBOOK, LINKED IN AND OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA PROFILES, WE FIND OURSELVES NOT ONLY WRITING MORE BUT ALSO MORE EFFICIENTLY!!  JOIN NOW ON OUR WEBSITE, DAILYWISDOM WORDS.COM!!  IS YOUR WRITING WORTH THE INVESTMENT OF $10?  WE WILL LET YOU DECIDE.  (IF YOU ARE NOT A WRITER BUT WOULD LIKE TO DONATE TO LITERACY AND BETTER DEVELOPMENT OF WRITERS, PLEASE DO.  SUPPORT OUR WRITERS TODAY WITH THIS INTERNATIONAL WEBSITE. 

OTHER DAILY WISDOM WORDS YOU MAY ENJOY:  http://dailywisdomwords.com/daily-wisdom-words/culpability/

PROMISES

by

PROMISES WILL BE OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY.  I WILL START THIS POST OFF WITH A QUESTION:  DO YOU KEEP YOUR PROMISES?  I FEEL PROMISES SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY AND ONLY MADE WITH THE ABSOLUTE BEST INTENTIONS TO KEEP THEM.  PROMISES ARE A PERSON’S WORD.  I HAVE BROKEN A PROMISE OR TWO IN THE PAST.  RIGIDITY IS NOT ONE OF MY FAVORITE WORDS.  PROMISES WITH RIGID FEELINGS FROM THE OTHER PERSON SHOULD MAJOR CIRCUMSTANCES CHANGE AND IT LITERALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO KEEP OUR WORD.  SOMETIMES INFORMATION CHANGES FROM THE TIME WE MADE THE PROMISE THAT IS OUT OF OUR CONTROL.  AGAIN, RIGIDITY FROM THE OTHER PARTY YOU MADE THE PROMISE TO IS DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH.  

RIGHT NOW, WE HAVE A MAJOR PANDEMIC ON OUR HANDS.  I PROMISED MY DAUGHTER TO GO BACK TO IDAHO SOON AND WAS PREPARED TO BOOK A TICKET.  HOWEVER, DUE TO THE CORONAVIRUS-19 OR COVID=19, EVEN WITH A MASK, IT, IN MY OPINION WOULD BE A MAJOR MISTAKE TO FLY FOR ME. I HAVE AN AUTOIMMUNE CONDITION THAT IS CHALLENGING ON MY IMMUNE SYSTEM PLACING ME IN A HIGHER RISK GROUP TO COME DOWN WITH THIS VIRUS.  SINCE SYMPTOMS HAVE UP TO A 14 DAY INCUBATION PERIOD, WE EASILY COULD BE AROUND SOMEONE WHO APPEARS TO BE ASYMPTOMATIC AND THEY HAVE THIS.  IT WILL NOW NOT BE POSSIBLE FOR ME TO KEEP MY PROMISE TO MY DAUGHTER.  LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE DEFINITION OF PROMISES IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION.

WEBSTER DEFINITION OF PROMISES-1. A DECLARATION OR ASSURANCE THAT ONE WILL DO A PARTICULAR THING OR THAT A PARTICULAR THING WILL HAPPEN.  

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION-1. A COMMITMENT THAT WE SHOULD ALWAYS HONOR UNLESS THE EXCEPTIONS ABOVE APPLY.  WE ARE ONLY AS GOOD AS THE WORD WE GIVE AND KEEP.  

PROMISES APPLY TO LIFE IN ALL SITUATIONS.  I WILL SHARE A PERSONAL STORY ABOUT A PROMISE I BROKE THAT I GAVE TO MY CHILDREN.  I ALWAYS “PROMISED” TO KEEP THEM SAFE AND PLACE THEIR INTERESTS BEFORE MY OWN YET, I SMOKED CIGARETTES IN MY BEDROOM AND WAS ON MEDICATION SOMETIMES FALLING ASLEEP WITH THEM STILL LIT.  I BROKE A PROMISE AND TOOK A CHANCE OF A FIRE HAPPENING AND WAS NOT AWARE UNTIL THIS YEAR JUST HOW MUCH THIS AFFECTED MY DAUGHTER.  APPARENTLY, SHE LIVED IN FEAR EVERY NIGHT SHE WAS HOME THE HOUSE WOULD CATCH ON FIRE.  THIS IS WHY PROMISES SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY AND NEVER BROKEN UNLESS THE ABOVE EXCEPTIONS OCCUR.  

I ASK YOU NOT TO JUDGE ME JUST AS I WILL NEVER JUDGE YOU WITH WHAT YOU MAY SHARE.  BENEATH THIS ARTICLE, IS A PLACE TO LEAVE COMMENTS.  I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOU THOUGHTS ABOUT MY STORY AND YOURS. 

THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING.  THIS BLOG IS A TINY PART OF DAILY WISDOM WORDS.  THERE ARE MUSIC PROMPTS, POETRY PROMPTS, NEEL’S WISDOMOLOGY FULL OF EXCELLENT ADVICE, A SOCIAL WRITING COMMUNITY FOR ALL WRITERS-AUTHORS, POETS, SONGWRITER’S, QUOTES.  SHIRLEY DOES OUR INTERVIEWS ON YOUTUBE.  SINCE YOUR HERE, TAKE A FULL LOOK AT THIS WEBSITE.  YOU WILL ALSO GET YOUR OWN SOCIAL MEDIA PAGE AND A PLACE TO SHARE YOUR WRITING, WHATEVER THAT MAY BE.  SAMANTHA LEBOEUF/DWW. 

HBY THE WAY, WE HAVE A POETRY CONTEST HAPPENING RIGHT NOW!!  GET YOUR ENTRIES IN!  IT IS $5 TO JOIN AND YOU CAN ENTER AS MANY POEMS AS YOU LIKE.  IT IS NOT NECESSARY TO JOIN TO ENTER YOU POETRY.  WIN $200 CASH, BE FEATURED ON OUR WEBSITE AND OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA ALONG WITH YOUR POEMS!!  ENTRIES SHOULD REFLECT OPEN TOPICS.  USE CREATIVITY AND WRITE ABOUT WHATEVER YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART.  IF YOU WANT MORE INFORMATION OF THE CURRENT SITUATION WITH THE CORONAVIRUS-19  ALSO KNOWN AS COVD-19, VISIT LEGITIMATE WEBSITES TO GET IT FROM.  YOU KNOW THEN, IT HAS NOT BEEN EXAGGERATED, A TACTIC MANY HACKERS USE TO GET YOU TO CLICK ON THE LINK.  

COVID-19 IS STILL IN THE DISCOVERY STAGE.  WHAT THIS MEANS TO US IS THAT WE NEED TO ANTICIPATE INFORMATION BEING ADDED, AND INFORMATION CHANGING, BASED ON WHAT THE EXPERTS CONTINUE TO DISCOVER.  THEY ARE NOT BREAKING THEIR WORD BUT WE HAVE TO GIVE THEM A BREAK.  AFTER ALL, THEY ARE UNDER A GREAT DEAL OF PRESSURE TO FIND A CURE. 

PLEASE VISIT WHO ( WORLDHEALTHORGANIZATION.ORG)  OR:  CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL.

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS ARTICLE?  DOES IT GIVE YOU INSIGHT WITH GREATER UNDERSTANDING?  DO YOU AGREE WITH IT?Y

OTHER DAILY WISDOM WORDS YOU MAY ENJOY:  http://dailywisdomwords.com/strife/