Daily Wisdom Words



Attraction is difficult to describe!  There are different types of attraction.  You can be physically attracted to someone, and begin speaking with them and find that you have nothing in common with the person ending the conversation.  When you are in the singles world, you learn what you like and don’t.  What if we are just referring to physical attraction?  First of all, physical attraction may be enough if you are looking for a one night stand.  It will be interesting to see how the singles world will change with mask requirements during this Covid-19 Pandemic?  If you are looking for something purely physical and short term, you may have a difficult time discerning what the person’s face looks like.  I don’t intend to make this post however, about physical attraction.  

Another kind of attraction I find most interesting is a mental one.  One of my greatest love relationships started with me not attracted to the person.  However, he was so bright and entertaining.  He also had an easy ability to make me feel special and laugh.  This is the kind of attraction that builds a nice foundation for a future partnership.  Statistics show when we find someone fascinating, physically good looking or not, you find yourself looking though the physical, and something powerful and mysterious is at work.  However, if the person you started off not attracted to, turns your mind around, you may find yourself attracted after all depending on what you are looking for.  This kind of man was full of charm and humor, and wasn’t physically “unattractive”.  He grew on me.  I  fell in love with him.  

According to an article published in “Psychology Today”, interviews were performed on both male and female candidates, and answers given from them, do not match their actual choices.  For example, Psychologists interview both sexes with the same standardized set of questions about their priorities in their perfect mate.  Ironically, it would appear physical attraction all interviewed gave answers rating “physical attraction” a five on their list when given a set of criteria to choose from.  Some of the criteria included were a sense of humor, charm, mental stimulation, compatibility and  kindness. These traits rated on their scores as more important than physical attraction.  What both sexes claim is a higher priority for them from the  above,  physical attraction ranked on an average #5, when adults took this test.  Yet, when these individuals were tracked over a two year period of time, PHYSICAL ATTRACTION was #1 when choosing their mates.  This study showed that the individual chosen, used physical attraction to determine their perfect mate.  (Portions of this post were taken from The Social Psychology and Romantic Relationships.) Please visit:  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blogs to see references from the data sources referenced. 

Let us take a look at the definition of physical attraction in the Webster Dictionary, and the Daily Wisdom Words definition.

Webster definition of Attraction-1.  The act, process or power of attracting others.  2.  Personal Charm.  3.  Something that attracts or is intended to attract people by appealing to their desires and tastes.

Daily Wisdom Words Definition for Attraction-The qualities we see in others that are liked, when spending time with someone and appealed to as well creating “attraction”.  

How do you rate physical attraction?  I believe this study to be accurate because of pheromones.  We are more primitive than we think.  Pheromones are produced by all of us, which is why perfume smells different on each individual.  It is a subconscious choice created by the pheromones that attracted someone to another.

We are going to conduct an experiment of our own.  Had you asked been part of the above study, how important do you think physical attraction is to you?  If you took this same test, where would you rate “physical attraction compared to other qualities such as kindness, sense of humor, and mental stimulation?”  For contrast, another study performed by besthealthmag.ca showed that when we used “physical attraction” to determine who we paired with, how long did the relationship last compared to others based on kindness, energy and vibe.  Finally, we must ask ourselves, are we really not physically attraction to a type of man, or are we choosing the wrong type of man to begin with?  Below this post, a section is designed for comments, where you see the rectangular box that says, “Join the Discussion.”  Come on people.  I have given you some interesting questions to comment on. Please give this serious thought before answering before you answer and compare your past choices to the answers given to see if they met what actually attracted you to your mate.  I would LOVE to hear your thoughts about any of the questions you choose.   Another option is to leave me a poem or quote about attraction you write/find.  

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Samantha Leboeuf-founder/daily wisdom words, LLC
Founder: Daily Wisdom Words, LLC. I love Poetry and am an Author as well.   There is a lot of meaning in the title of my book, Daily Wisdom Words, Volume l. My previous experience is in Sales and Marketing. Previously, I was in charge of Development through the Marketing and Sales of New Homes' in new home communities for close to 20 years.  I was a licensed Real Estate Broker selling/listing homes in the Colorado market.  While doing this, I hosted a cable network show called, "From Trees to Keys", my portion for Colorado Living Inc.. I enjoyed creating interview questions, working for Developers of New Home Communities, hosting Live on actual construction sites, describing and displaying on television camera various stages of construction as the home was built from start to finish. I interviewed various land developers, New Home Builders, Real Estate Brokers, and other people in the Real Estate Business for one year. Previous Experience: I was licensed through the "Securities and Exchange Commission" as a Principal for Limited Partnerships and sold them as well. I held a Series 22, 63, as well as License, to manage a brokerage firm called a series 39. I enjoyed running a small branch office of an Oil and Gas Company in Colorado for approximately one year. Hobbies: I have always loved Poetry and Writing.  I was declared "Permanently Disabled" due to Breast Cancer and CRPS-(Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome).  I began focusing on my writing. I volunteered for an online poetry community,  "Realistic Poetry" for approximately six months. I decided to start Daily Wisdom Words, LLC after volunteering for an online poetry community and thinking of ways that I would improve this concept and offer something for every KIND of #Writer:  Authors, Bloggers, Poets, Songwriters, Original Quote Creatives, and short story writers. I have two grown children, a son, 33, and a daughter 31,  who lives in Idaho with her husband. They have a son, my first grandchild who will be three years old, soon!  They welcomed their second child, Easton Jay into the world, 5/4//2021. Updates are necessary as my son is now married to my lovely daughter-in-law who is awesome.  She just gave birth to their first son on 5/5/2021, who is so beautiful having the name Logan James Leboeuf. This is her and my son's first child.  Hard to believe their child has a birthday one day ahead of my daughter and son-in-law's second child, Little E.  So exciting!!  I love children! Thanks so much for reading!  We humbly love this community and the members who are part of it. We think of ourselves as a family, and every member makes up part of it.  Please view our website, dailywisdomwords.com fully as it is constantly changing!!  We are always adding new prompts, and new content, and are so very proud to be debuting with our first podcast, "Daily Wisdom Words Podcast."  Episode #101 with Dr. Dream, Kelly Sullivan Walden.  She will be our first guest.  Please watch as it airs 6/12/2021 June 12, 2021 9:00 am pacific time.  Thank you in advance if you are new to daily wisdom words, and welcome to the family. Samantha LeBoeuf
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