Daily Wisdom Words



Do you feel your an insecure person?  If you do, this post is for you.  We will go into what causes insecurities and how important it is to recognize and isolate where they are coming from.  We will also take a look at the exact meaning of the word, insecurities in the Webster Dictionary, and assign a daily wisdom word meaning that is most relevant to this post.  Let us first take a look at the meaning of insecurities from our Webster Dictionary.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Webster Dictionary Meaning of Insecurities-1.  Uncertainty about oneself;  Lack of  Confidence and feeling inadequate.

Daily Wisdom Words Definition of Insecurities-1.  believing yourself to be, “less than you are”.

Our insecurities are:  not feeling secure with yourself and what you stand for, who your really are, and who you believe yourself to be.  I Don’t mistake insecurities with facts.  They are two opposite things, much of the time.  Also, don’t mistake what makes you insecure, is something you can always change.  The key to overcoming insecurities, is the changes you make in who you believe yourself to be.  Who you are, then changes to match the truth in who you become.  

According to Melanie Greenberg PH.D., there are three main components we can attribute our insecurities to:

1.  Insecurity based on recent rejection.  2.  Lack of Confidence due to social anxiety  3.  Insecurity driven by perfectionism.  

Issue #1.  People, even the ones with the most self-confidence, go through times of insecurity when rejection from others are involved that they care about.  The strongest reason for this type of insecurity is cause from a  love break-up.  Some suggestions overcoming this type of insecurity, according to this article by Ms. Greenberg, PH.D., is to 1.  Give yourself time to heal . 2.  Get out and engage with life.  3.  reach out to friends and family for support . 4.  Get feedback from people you trust  5.  Persevere and keep moving towards your goals  6.  Be willing to try a different strategy if necessary.

Issue 2.  Lack of confidence  because of social anxiety.  The best way to work on this kind of insecurity is, 1. Take back your inner critic . 2.  Prepare in advance. 3.  Don’t allow yourself to avoid social situations  

Issue #3.  Having an expectation for yourself to be perfect .  How can you fix this?  1.  Try to evaluate yourself on the things you are in control of . 2.  Think about how much difference it really would make if your work were 10 percent better

My Advice:  Insecurities are best fighting facts for facts.  For us to be feeling insecure, there is always much more going on subconsciously than we realize.  Stop getting hung up on a low opinion of yourself, and when you find your thinking is stinking, STOP!.  Insecurities based on perfectionism have to start somewhere.  They tend to start with our own definition of what that perfectionism is. Change your definition of Perfect!!  When you’ve been rejected by someone you cared about, this can be the hardest cause and development of insecurity.  

What can you do to counter this?  Wipe the slate clean.  Start over.  Like a home that has to be rebuilt after being destroyed, to build it back, you start as you did in the beginning:  with a cleared area of land.  This is the same with our insecurities that have developed due to love recognition.  

The most important piece of advice I can share with you is to stop determining your value based off of other’s opinions of you.  Only give the opinions you have of yourself credence.  Why is this so important?  The values and beliefs you have of yourself, you can change!  WE CANNOT CONTROL/CHANGE OTHER PEOPLE!!  We can however, change ourselves.  Give yourself an honest assessment of areas in which you feel you would like to improve.  Write these things down in order of priority and work on them, one at a time.  Make sure to have a “Confidence List” beside you as you work on your issues.  This is a list, created by you, of what you believe yourself to be good at, good for, and things that establish self-good.  

Insecurities are one of the hardest things to deal with.  Simply remember:  You have the power to change them.  If your not putting in the effort to change your insecurities, perhaps they are not as important to you as they should be.  I hope this all has helped you and thanks so much for reading about insecurities today!  Please scroll down to the bottom of this post where it says, “Join the Discussion” , and leave a comment, poem or quote about  “insecurities”.  Samantha Leboeuf/DWW Community



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Authors, Poets, Songwriters, and Bloggers can all benefit for being part of this community! Quickly, I will go over some of the highlights of joining Daily Wisdom Words.  1.  Daily Wisdom Words Blog, (what you’ve just been reading.) . published Monday, Wednesday and Friday.  2.  Neel’s Wisdomology, a page for quotes, along with Neels personal suggestions, as well as a poem he crafts.  He then asks you some questions:  Scroll down beneath his post, on our website, dailywisdomwords.com, to the “Join the discussion, area”.  Participate!  You gain the advantages in actively participating and meet other members.  3.  Picture Poetry-Mon-Friday hosted live with Ace.  Our picture poetry page is one of our most popular parts of our website.  Everyday, from 9:00am -4:00pm Ace is available to comment on your poem which you create based on the picture Ace provides, and incorporate the two words he provides into the poem.  4.  Shirley’s Past and Present Wise Poets-Articles are published by 9:00-11:00 am EST. every Saturday, and are so interesting, giving you fascinating facts about Famous Poets!  You will learn so much, and Shirley is available for your comments/questions Saturday throughout the day as well.  5.  Community Writing Page, also known as “Community Corner”.  This page is designed for all members to do with, as they wish, by publishing poetry to share with others, short stories, and quotes, used by all writers.  Authors, this is a great place for you to share a blurb about your “NEW Book Release”, what the books about, and a link.  6.  Personal Portfolio Page, one given to each members.  This page has been formatted for your profile, uploading links, photos, history, brief resume of who you are.  More importantly, you have the option to send out friend requests, receive them from other members in the community with individuals who hold the same interests as you.  I have made some of the best friends here on our website. and, 7.  DWW MUSIC PROMPT every Saturday and Sunday hosted from 9:00am to 3:00pm by Monday ABuh!  A very popular song is picked, and played on the website.  You listen to the song, scroll down beneath its lyrics, and write a poem about it! Daily Wisdom Words is a Family oriented community, and we would love to have you join for just $10 for a lifetime membership!! One of the biggest benefits of each daily wisdom words webpage on our website, is that a button is right there for you to push on every post you make to repost on twitter, facebook, linkedin or Reddit, so with this option, we ask all of you to do your writing on the website and tweet or send out to FB, with the click of a button!  NEW:  Available to Members only-Wise advice, a counseling program with myself and Neel.  You not only can request advice, but you can request for it privately or publicly, by email or phone, and pick myself or Neel to be your Life Coach/Listener.  We are not licensed counselors, but feel we have much to offer based on wisdom gained from mistakes we learned from….

We also offer inexpensive book reviews, a $50 special for a full book review, which is published in two places on the website, (dailywisdomwords.com/wise-reviews) and our online library.  Join today!  We want our family to include you!  Isn’t it time to make a change?  The truth is you would not have read this far unless you already knew this…….The Daily Wisdom Words Team






Samantha Leboeuf-founder/daily wisdom words, LLC
Founder: Daily Wisdom Words, LLC. I love Poetry and am an Author as well.   There is a lot of meaning in the title of my book, Daily Wisdom Words, Volume l. My previous experience is in Sales and Marketing. Previously, I was in charge of Development through the Marketing and Sales of New Homes' in new home communities for close to 20 years.  I was a licensed Real Estate Broker selling/listing homes in the Colorado market.  While doing this, I hosted a cable network show called, "From Trees to Keys", my portion for Colorado Living Inc.. I enjoyed creating interview questions, working for Developers of New Home Communities, hosting Live on actual construction sites, describing and displaying on television camera various stages of construction as the home was built from start to finish. I interviewed various land developers, New Home Builders, Real Estate Brokers, and other people in the Real Estate Business for one year. Previous Experience: I was licensed through the "Securities and Exchange Commission" as a Principal for Limited Partnerships and sold them as well. I held a Series 22, 63, as well as License, to manage a brokerage firm called a series 39. I enjoyed running a small branch office of an Oil and Gas Company in Colorado for approximately one year. Hobbies: I have always loved Poetry and Writing.  I was declared "Permanently Disabled" due to Breast Cancer and CRPS-(Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome).  I began focusing on my writing. I volunteered for an online poetry community,  "Realistic Poetry" for approximately six months. I decided to start Daily Wisdom Words, LLC after volunteering for an online poetry community and thinking of ways that I would improve this concept and offer something for every KIND of #Writer:  Authors, Bloggers, Poets, Songwriters, Original Quote Creatives, and short story writers. I have two grown children, a son, 33, and a daughter 31,  who lives in Idaho with her husband. They have a son, my first grandchild who will be three years old, soon!  They welcomed their second child, Easton Jay into the world, 5/4//2021. Updates are necessary as my son is now married to my lovely daughter-in-law who is awesome.  She just gave birth to their first son on 5/5/2021, who is so beautiful having the name Logan James Leboeuf. This is her and my son's first child.  Hard to believe their child has a birthday one day ahead of my daughter and son-in-law's second child, Little E.  So exciting!!  I love children! Thanks so much for reading!  We humbly love this community and the members who are part of it. We think of ourselves as a family, and every member makes up part of it.  Please view our website, dailywisdomwords.com fully as it is constantly changing!!  We are always adding new prompts, and new content, and are so very proud to be debuting with our first podcast, "Daily Wisdom Words Podcast."  Episode #101 with Dr. Dream, Kelly Sullivan Walden.  She will be our first guest.  Please watch as it airs 6/12/2021 June 12, 2021 9:00 am pacific time.  Thank you in advance if you are new to daily wisdom words, and welcome to the family. Samantha LeBoeuf
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