Daily Wisdom Words

ALLOWANCES

ALLOWANCES

When are the right times for us to give allowances to others?  Let us first take a look at the meaning of allowances that is associated with our Daily Wisdom Word in our Webster Dictionary.

Allowances-1.  The amount of something that is permitted, especially within a set of regulations for a specified purpose.

Daily Wisdom Word Meaning of Allowances-The amount of slack we give to another with things they say or do.

Allowances can be given too much or too little to others. Knowing what the proper boundaries are that are healthy for you and others is  very important.

First, let’s take a look at giving too little flexibility or allowance with others.  I have a friend, who is very strict to her principles.  Whenever someone violates whatever principles you have, in regards to having things said or done in the proper manner, they expect the same from others.  This is very difficult because what we believe is right or wrong, is not the same as what another’s set of principles and balancing between what is right and wrong as your is.

She tends to be very hard on people that don’t meet her expectations to the exact format she thinks they should be met.  This causes her to get upset very easily, and others wonder if they can please her at all.

There is the other extreme which is the person that allows someone to walk all over their principles and beliefs without using any boundaries to stop them.  They allow someone to push their boundaries of what they feel is wrong or right in regards to their behavior towards them, they end up losing self-esteem and belief in their own beliefs.  This hurts them in the end.

We have to have a certain amount of flexibility with people.  We have to believe that they deserve just enough allowances so their beliefs are not all exactly like ours, but not too much flexibility to cause them to lose their own way with what they believe in.  It is important never to deviate too far from your own beliefs of how you should be treated, so you don’t accept being treated less than who you are.  So, my first example of my friend that doesn’t allow any room for a margin of error ends up being disappointed in others because they don’t live up to her expectations, also leaves the other party believing that they cannot make her happy.

The second example I used allows someone to let someone walk all over what they believe violating their core principles.

Finding a balance between these two examples is the perfect example of the amount of flexibility we should use with others.

Thanks so much for reading about allowances today.  May you have a beautiful and blessed day.  Remember:  After you’ve read this post to scroll down beneath it where it says, “join the discussion” and leave a comment, poem or quote about what you believe our expectations should be for allowances with others and our own beliefs and how close or far apart we are with them.

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Samantha Leboeuf-founder/daily wisdom words, LLC
Founder: Daily Wisdom Words, LLC. I love Poetry and am an Author as well.   There is a lot of meaning in the title of my book, Daily Wisdom Words, Volume l. My previous experience is in Sales and Marketing. Previously, I was in charge of Development through the Marketing and Sales of New Homes' in new home communities for close to 20 years.  I was a licensed Real Estate Broker selling/listing homes in the Colorado market.  While doing this, I hosted a cable network show called, "From Trees to Keys", my portion for Colorado Living Inc.. I enjoyed creating interview questions, working for Developers of New Home Communities, hosting Live on actual construction sites, describing and displaying on television camera various stages of construction as the home was built from start to finish. I interviewed various land developers, New Home Builders, Real Estate Brokers, and other people in the Real Estate Business for one year. Previous Experience: I was licensed through the "Securities and Exchange Commission" as a Principal for Limited Partnerships and sold them as well. I held a Series 22, 63, as well as License, to manage a brokerage firm called a series 39. I enjoyed running a small branch office of an Oil and Gas Company in Colorado for approximately one year. Hobbies: I have always loved Poetry and Writing.  I was declared "Permanently Disabled" due to Breast Cancer and CRPS-(Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome).  I began focusing on my writing. I volunteered for an online poetry community,  "Realistic Poetry" for approximately six months. I decided to start Daily Wisdom Words, LLC after volunteering for an online poetry community and thinking of ways that I would improve this concept and offer something for every KIND of #Writer:  Authors, Bloggers, Poets, Songwriters, Original Quote Creatives, and short story writers. I have two grown children, a son, 33, and a daughter 31,  who lives in Idaho with her husband. They have a son, my first grandchild who will be three years old, soon!  They welcomed their second child, Easton Jay into the world, 5/4//2021. Updates are necessary as my son is now married to my lovely daughter-in-law who is awesome.  She just gave birth to their first son on 5/5/2021, who is so beautiful having the name Logan James Leboeuf. This is her and my son's first child.  Hard to believe their child has a birthday one day ahead of my daughter and son-in-law's second child, Little E.  So exciting!!  I love children! Thanks so much for reading!  We humbly love this community and the members who are part of it. We think of ourselves as a family, and every member makes up part of it.  Please view our website, dailywisdomwords.com fully as it is constantly changing!!  We are always adding new prompts, and new content, and are so very proud to be debuting with our first podcast, "Daily Wisdom Words Podcast."  Episode #101 with Dr. Dream, Kelly Sullivan Walden.  She will be our first guest.  Please watch as it airs 6/12/2021 June 12, 2021 9:00 am pacific time.  Thank you in advance if you are new to daily wisdom words, and welcome to the family. Samantha LeBoeuf
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