OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY IS CHARM. IN TODAY’S SOCIETY, HOW OFTEN DO WE SEE CHARM THAT IS SINCERE, NOT SUPERFICIAL? IT IS NOT UNCOMMON TO FIND THOSE INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE CHARMING IN THIS WORLD. HOWEVER, IS THE CHARM WE SEE IN PEOPLE TODAY SUPERFICIAL, OR SINCERE WITH THEIR CHARACTER AND WHO THEY ARE? BEFORE GOING ANY FURTHER, LET US TAKE LOOK AT THE MEANING OF CHARM IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORD MEANING OF CHARM.
WEBSTER DEFINITION, CHARM- 1. THE POWER OR QUALITY OF GIVING DELIGHT OR AROUSING ADMIRATION. 2. A CONTROL OR ACHIEVE BY OR AS IF BY MAGIC.
DAILY WISDOM WORD MEANING OF CHARM- A CHARACTERISTIC FEW HAVE SINCERELY THAT BRINGS WARMTH OUR IN OTHERS THROUGH THE WARMTH A PERSON HAS WHEN INTERACTING WITH OTHERS.
CHARM IS NOT A COMMON CHARACTERISTIC THAT OCCURS ALTRUISTICALLY. WE MOST OFTEN HEAR THE TERM, OR WORD CHARM WHEN WE ARE REFERRING TO SUPERFICIAL CHARM THAT IS INTERACTIVE WITH NARCISSISM. CHARM IS A QUALITY IN AND OF ITSELF, GOOD. HOWEVER, WHEN WE USE THIS KIND OF WARMTH AND KINDNESS IT COMES ACROSS SOMETIMES IN ONE WHO IS NARCISSISTIC. WHEN WE SEE IN ANOTHER THIS KIND OF CHARM, IF IT IS ONE WE DON’T SEE AS ANYONE BUT THE IMAGE BEING PROJECTED TO THEIR SURFACE.
THIS IS WHY WE END UP CALLING IT, SUPERFICIAL CHARM. OFTEN CHARM IS DEMONSTRATED WITH SOMEONES MANNERS BECAUSE FOR EXAMPLE, SOMEONE WHO IS CHARMING IS ALSO MANIPULATIVE WHEN THAT CHARM WE SEE FROM THEM IS SIMPLY “SUPERFICIAL. IF WE WERE TO ALL VISIT THE TRUE SOUTH, SUCH AS TEXAS, ALABAMA GEORGIA, WE SEE CHARM IN ITS SINCERE MEANING AND FORM MORE OFTEN THAN NOT. MEN ARE THOUGHT OF AS HAVING CHARM IN HOW THEY ARE AS MEN. RARELY DO WE SEE CHARM IN SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T SHOW IT THROUGH THEIR MANNERS AROUND WOMEN SUCH AS INTRODUCING THEMSELVES TO A WOMAN AND KISSING HER HAND. THIS IS CHARMING IN THE SOUTH AND CUSTOMARY. IF YOU HAVE LIVED OR DO LIVE IN THE SOUTH, YOU ARE FAMILIAR WITH THIS.
SOMETIMES DESPITE WHERE WE LIVE OR IF WE ARE MALE OR FEMALE, WE ARE BORN WITH CHARM. WE SEE IT AS EARLY AS CHILDHOOD. CHARM IS SEEN IN THE CUTE KID WITH RED HAIR, FRECKLES AND GLASSES WHO IS SMILING A LOT AND THE WORD CHARM ISN’T OFTEN USED AS WE COMMONLY USED IT A CENTURY OR TWO AGO. IF WE LOOK HARD ENOUGH, CHARM IS STILL A VERY ATTRACTIVE PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTIC. WHAT DOES CHARM MEAN TO YOU? DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF CHARMING? HOW MEANINGFUL IS CHARM IN ITS SINCEREST FORM AS A PERSONALITY TRAIT OR CHARACTERISTIC? LEAVE A COMMENT BELOW.
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Charmers or groomers… they are all the same. I learned the hard way. First they act as though they care. Reeling you in hook line sink naked and bare.
Hands around your throat gripping for air. Kicking walls as you struggle hoping someone or someone will care.