DECEPTION

Have you ever been the victim of deception? What exactly does deception mean?

Let us first take a look at the meaning of deception in our Webster Dictionary-1. deceitfulness; duplicity, the art of being deceitful.

Daily Wisdom Word Definition-1. The art of trickery and duplicity.

Being the victim of deception does not feel good. Deception is described as an “art”. That is because it is usually a planned action taken on the deceivers part. There is thought and planning as a part of it which is why being deceived never is received well from the one who undergoes it. I will share my story of deceit, and let you know one last thing: in order to be a “victim”, you must give permission to the victimizer to be victimized.

I allowed someone I cared for very much to deceive me who I was in a relationship with. He lied to me three weeks into the relationship, which is when I should have ended the relationship, but did not. That is why I call myself a victim. As the relationship went on, I went through periods of deceitful behavior on his behalf but I always chose to forgive him. This was my choice, as I was vulnerable at the time, and felt I had to settle for that kind of treatment.

I believe deception is planned. The reason I say that is because in order fo someone to deceive another, they have to think about what lie it is that they are going to tell the other party to get away with the deceit. After they are done deceiving you, they have to plan how they are going to keep whatever it is they have done, hidden from us. This takes planning and motivation on their behalf to get away with it.

This man was extremely crafty. Although I say, “I chose to be a victim” never judge another until you walk in their shoes. It is possible you may have believed him to, as he was a master at deceit.

In fact, my favorite word for him was “duplicity” which is a synonym of deception. Think about your relationships today and your past ones. I want to hear stories in our poems of hurt and deceitful behavior. I write on these daily wisdom words to learn from, and what I would like us to reflect on, is how much we have grown if this is a past relationship, or how much we need to grow, if this is a present one.

Deception is always a clever action on behalf of the deceiver. Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated from this kind of person more than once if ever at all. I am a firm believer that everyone makes mistakes and they are allowed one with me as their mistake. I view the second mistake now, as mine. I at this point go from victim to having to take ownership for the behavior I have “decided” to accept.

Please submit poems on this website about deception today. This is our daily wisdom word and this website can now take your submissions. You should also be able to post them on twitter from this website and if not, please post them on twitter. Remember: We retain NO COPYRIGHT PRIVILEGES with your material, and you can feel comfortable knowing that posting on this site. I can also comment on your responses now, and you may comment on each other’s work. Thanks so much for reading about deception with me today.

I look forward to your submissions.

Samantha Leboeuf
Daily Wisdom Words

Samantha Leboeuf-founder/daily wisdom words, LLC
Founder: Daily Wisdom Words, LLC. I love Poetry and am an Author as well.   There is a lot of meaning in the title of my book, Daily Wisdom Words, Volume l. My previous experience is in Sales and Marketing. Previously, I was in charge of Development through the Marketing and Sales of New Homes' in new home communities for close to 20 years.  I was a licensed Real Estate Broker selling/listing homes in the Colorado market.  While doing this, I hosted a cable network show called, "From Trees to Keys", my portion for Colorado Living Inc.. I enjoyed creating interview questions, working for Developers of New Home Communities, hosting Live on actual construction sites, describing and displaying on television camera various stages of construction as the home was built from start to finish. I interviewed various land developers, New Home Builders, Real Estate Brokers, and other people in the Real Estate Business for one year. Previous Experience: I was licensed through the "Securities and Exchange Commission" as a Principal for Limited Partnerships and sold them as well. I held a Series 22, 63, as well as License, to manage a brokerage firm called a series 39. I enjoyed running a small branch office of an Oil and Gas Company in Colorado for approximately one year. Hobbies: I have always loved Poetry and Writing.  I was declared "Permanently Disabled" due to Breast Cancer and CRPS-(Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome).  I began focusing on my writing. I volunteered for an online poetry community,  "Realistic Poetry" for approximately six months. I decided to start Daily Wisdom Words, LLC after volunteering for an online poetry community and thinking of ways that I would improve this concept and offer something for every KIND of #Writer:  Authors, Bloggers, Poets, Songwriters, Original Quote Creatives, and short story writers. I have two grown children, a son, 33, and a daughter 31,  who lives in Idaho with her husband. They have a son, my first grandchild who will be three years old, soon!  They welcomed their second child, Easton Jay into the world, 5/4//2021. Updates are necessary as my son is now married to my lovely daughter-in-law who is awesome.  She just gave birth to their first son on 5/5/2021, who is so beautiful having the name Logan James Leboeuf. This is her and my son's first child.  Hard to believe their child has a birthday one day ahead of my daughter and son-in-law's second child, Little E.  So exciting!!  I love children! Thanks so much for reading!  We humbly love this community and the members who are part of it. We think of ourselves as a family, and every member makes up part of it.  Please view our website, dailywisdomwords.com fully as it is constantly changing!!  We are always adding new prompts, and new content, and are so very proud to be debuting with our first podcast, "Daily Wisdom Words Podcast."  Episode #101 with Dr. Dream, Kelly Sullivan Walden.  She will be our first guest.  Please watch as it airs 6/12/2021 June 12, 2021 9:00 am pacific time.  Thank you in advance if you are new to daily wisdom words, and welcome to the family. Samantha LeBoeuf
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