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FALLOUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT BASED ON HONESTY FROM ITS INCEPTION?

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HAVE YOU EVER BEEN HURT BY SOMEONE YOU NEVER MET?  THIS IS CALLED “FALLOUT”.  FALLOUT IS WHEN WE SEE THE END OR THE BEGINNING THE END.  WE SEE WHAT THE RESULTS OF A SITUATIONAL OUT COME ARE AND THAT THIS SITUATION WAS NEVER DESIGNED TO BE ABOUT HURTING YOU.   HOWEVER, WE DO GET HURT, AND EXPERIENCE “FALLOUT”.

 A BETTER WAY TO EXPLAIN THIS IS TO PICTURE A LARGE METEOR SHOWER FALLING FROM THE SKY AND YOU ARE THE ONE WHO HAPPENS TO BE WALKING OUTSIDE AND YOU ARE HIT BY A PIECE OF THIS “FALLOUT”.   NO ONE MEANT FOR YOU TO GET HURT, YET YOU DID AND IT WAS AT NO FAULT OF YOUR OWN.   YOU HAVE A GASH IN YOUR HEAD AND NOW MUST GO TO THE HOSPITAL WHICH WILL COST YOU A FORTUNE.  YOU DID NOTHING TO DESERVE THIS.  LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS FAIR.  PART OF BEING HUMAN IS TO ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES THEY SAY.  OFTEN, HOWEVER, WE ARE NOT THE ONES WHO ARE CAUSING DAMAGE TO OURSELVES AND HAVE NO ILL WILL IN OUR HEARTS.   THESE SITUATIONS CAN ALSO HAPPEN IN RELATIONSHIPS WHERE WE GET HURT DUE TO NOTHING WE HAVE DONE BY THE VERY PERSON WE CARED FOR.  THIS IS “FALLOUT” AGAIN AND IS A PART OF LIFE.   LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE MEANING OF FALLOUT IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION.   

WEBSTER DEFINITION, FALLOUT-(PARTIAL).  1.  THE ADVERSE SIDE EFFECTS OF A SITUATION. 

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION-1. CONSEQUENCES WHICH MAY OR MAY NOT BE CAUSED BY ACTIONS YOU ARE DIRECTLY INVOLVED WITH AND YOU BECOME A VICTIM THROUGH NO FAULT OF YOUR OWN.  HOMEOWNER’S INSURANCE CALLS THESE EVENTS “ACTS OF GOD”. 

WEATHER IS A GREAT EXAMPLE THAT DEMONSTRATES THE EFFECTS OF FALLOUT IN ONE’S LIFE.  IF WE GO BACK MANY YEARS AGO, WE MAY VERY WELL REMEMBER “HURRICANE KATRINA”. WHICH HIT LAND AND DEMOLISHED MUCH OF NEW ORLEANS.   THIS WAS NOT INTENTIONAL IN ANY WAY ON YOUR PART TO GET THE “FALLOUT” OF THIS SITUATION.  YET, CONSEQUENCES DO OCCUR THAT DO AFFECT AND CAUSE GREAT UPHEAVAL IN YOUR LIFE.   

SADLY, OVER A PERIOD OF TIME, YOU WILL GET YOUR LIFE BACK TO SOME SEMBLANCE OF NORMAL.  IT WILL TAKE TIME BUT YOU WILL HAVE THE POWER WITH WILL AND DETERMINATION TO GET YOUR WORLD BACK AS YOU ONCE KNEW IT.  LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THIS CURRENT PANDEMIC GOING ON NOW WELL OVER A YEAR.  DUE TO AN UNDERLYING CONDITION, I STAY HOME MORE, OFTEN THEN I WOULD WANT TO FOR SAFETY REASONS TO AVOID THE POTENTIAL OF GETTING EXPOSED TO COVID-19.

I STILL REMEMBER MEETING SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME AND HUGGING THEM HELLO AT A SOCIAL EVENT.  TODAY, IF I DID THIS, THE ONE  PERSON I TRIED TO HUG MIGHT CRINGE.  THIS MAKES FOR A LONELY LIFE.  I FIND MYSELF MORE DOWN THAN EVER DUE TO ISOLATION I WOULD NOT CHOOSE NOW BUT ONCE APPRECIATED AFTER WORKING ALL DAY AROUND A SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT, (REAL ESTATE).  NOW, I WOULD GIVE SO MUCH JUST TO GO BACK AND HAVE THINGS BE NORMAL.  I CAN’T WAIT TO GET MY VACCINE FOR COVID-19.   THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES WHEN WE DON’T WEAR A MASK AS RECOMMENDED, AND THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES WHEN WE DON’T PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING.  AGAIN, THIS IS FALLOUT.  

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RELEASE

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What do we need to release everything negative in our lives?  What is left when we experience something negative in our lives?  Is it visible what happens?  No, it is not.  We cannot see energy.  Negative energy is invisible and so is positive energy but there are residual effects of both of these.  Regardless of the energy, like all energy it needs to be used or expended like fuel.  What this means is if you don’t release negative energy, it will be released, regardless.  

Before going any further, let us take a look at the meaning of our daily wisdom word, release in our Webster Dictionary and daily wisdom word meaning of release.

Webster Definition of Release-1.  allow or enable to escape from confinement, set free.  2.  Allow something to move, act or flow freely.  3.  remove restrictions or obligations from someone/something s0 that they become available for other activity.

Daily Wisdom Word Meaning of Release-1.  to let go of something to create room for something new and better.  

We all get angry from time to time, whether it be at ourselves or another person or situation.  I know when this happens to me, if I don’t release these feelings by expressing it to the person I feel angry towards in the kindest way possible, I suffer.  If it is not possible to share with them this anger due to how they may react, I will need to write it down or share it with a friend to release this negative energy.  What happens when I do not release this energy? I turn it inward and release it upon myself.  This may be in the form of a lowered self-esteem because I did not have the nerve to confront this person, or it may affect my perception of myself and weaknesses I feel I have.  

I find for myself, I sometimes bottle up negative energy and have to release it is some way.  If I am upset with another person, being that I do not like conflict, rather than speak to them about my issue, I will write them a letter.  I may never give them this letter.  I simply do this to release my negative energy to make room for positive energy or positive thoughts.  

Daily Wisdom Words is about being honest.  I feel so ashamed sometimes at myself that I don’t handle coping with loss or potential loss very well.  In the past, I have had a friend who I was close to develop cancer.  I felt in my heart she might die.  I had never met her, but knew her over social media, and recently sent her an apology email because I wasn’t there for her via phone while she was going through this.  I kept worrying she was dead, and at the same time her cancer developed, my sister developed oral cancer, stage 3 and it was simply too much to cope with.  There is a price to pay as well for those who need to express pain or anger and not being there for them to release it.  I sent an apology letter recently, not knowing if she was alive or dead.  What I realized as I wrote this, was I probably had suffered more not being there for her, than she did by not having me to release her feelings to.  I am far from perfect.  This has taught me how important it is, not only to release negative energy, but also be there for someone when they need to release negative energy.  I will not make this same mistake again.  I did in the apology letter, ask her to forgive me for not being there for her, not knowing if I would get a response.  She sent back an emoji of a heart and a thank you.  I lost her friendship over it.  

Sometimes when we release our feelings and thoughts, what we would like to happen doesn’t happen.  We cannot control others reactions or responses.  What we can do is take a lesson forward and leave a mistake behind.  

Thanks for reading about “release” today.  Have a beautiful and blessed day.  

Samantha Leboeuf/DWW