ACCEPTANCE IS NOT DEFEAT (REPOST)

Accepting is NOT defeat, it’s adding layers of intimacy with the universe or higher power and getting more acquainted with them.

-Kyle Higgins, Mental Health Counselor

Does acceptance of something that didn’t go your way a form of defeat?

This is something my counselor and I recently talked about in a grueling session. For new readers that may not know, I have clinical depression and have been seeing a counselor years.

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I FORFEIT…THEREFORE I WIN

Surrender is the bravest and most lucid thing a human ever does and that’s why it’s so precious to the Divine.
-Andrew Harvey

Does God hate me?

I used to think this quite often when I was younger and didn’t get my way. When I talk about not getting my way, I’m not implying desires like wanting a million dollars or a wanting a mansion.

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GOD’S IDENTITY CRISIS

“Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind.”
-Albert Einstein

If you take a look at any of my articles that allude to a higher power, you’ll notice a common phrase: God or the universe.

Yesterday a reader asked me if I was trying be diplomatic. The answer is no.

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ACCEPTANCE IS NOT DEFEAT

Accepting is NOT defeat, it’s adding layers of intimacy with the universe or higher power and getting more acquainted with them.

-Kyle Higgins, Mental Health Counselor

Does acceptance of something that didn’t go your way a form of defeat?

This is something my counselor and I recently talked about in a grueling session. For new readers that may not know, I have clinical depression and have been seeing a counselor years.

This past Monday, I had a particularly gruelling, but ultimately rewarding, session with him. Our main topic was perception of four words that may seem either negative or insignificant.

Those four words are accept, believe, breathe and live. I’m sure all of us have certain pre-conceived notions about each of those words. But what if we looked at them in a different light?

𝔸ℂℂ𝔼ℙ𝕋: There are certain ways of the universe which we can never change. What we can change is our perception of acceptance. As today’s quote says, accepting is NOT defeat, it’s adding layers of intimacy with the universe or a higher power and getting more acquainted with them. In every successful relationship, there is give and take. Why should a relationship with God be any different?

𝔹𝔼𝕃𝕀𝔼𝕍𝔼: Not being in control doesn’t always equate to suffering. The universe or God is not out to personally gets you. Rather, they want to nurture you and help you build survival skills for both the good AND the bad. Believe that every bad experience will teach you something and help you in the future.

𝔹ℝ𝔼𝔸𝕋ℍ𝔼: “Hey! Pay more attention to me. I am keeping you alive after all.” Or so your breathing might be saying when you’re panicking or having an anxiety attack. In those moments, just take a minute to calm your breath down (& not the other way around). Stop it from running too fast by holding it back & then releasing it gently.

𝕃𝕀𝕍𝔼: You were sent here as a human being & not a robot for a reason. You’re meant to live. Take full advantage of it. Don’t squander that right.

How do you feel about these perceptions of the words above? How do you personally view them? Is there a specific part of your life that framed your beliefs? Or is it living in general? Share your thoughts and experiences by commenting below on our secure servers.

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GRATITUDE FOR THE EXPECTED

“Gratitude turns what we have into enough.”
-Aesop

In several of my previous articles, I’ve talked about expressing gratitude for both big and little things in life. But have you ever considered being thankful for what you want or need but don’t have?

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SUPERSTITIONS – (REVISED)

“Future endeavors with superstitions attached to them have the same probability of coming to fruition that anything else does. Either they’ll come to fruition or they won’t. Had they been anything more or less, the world would be a much different place.”
-Excerpt from upcoming short story “Howl of Freedom” by Angie Verhoeven

Are you superstitious?

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FALLOUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT BASED ON HONESTY FROM ITS INCEPTION?

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN HURT BY SOMEONE YOU NEVER MET?  THIS IS CALLED “FALLOUT”.  FALLOUT IS WHEN WE SEE THE END OR THE BEGINNING THE END.  WE SEE WHAT THE RESULTS OF A SITUATIONAL OUT COME ARE AND THAT THIS SITUATION WAS NEVER DESIGNED TO BE ABOUT HURTING YOU.   HOWEVER, WE DO GET HURT, AND EXPERIENCE “FALLOUT”.

 A BETTER WAY TO EXPLAIN THIS IS TO PICTURE A LARGE METEOR SHOWER FALLING FROM THE SKY AND YOU ARE THE ONE WHO HAPPENS TO BE WALKING OUTSIDE AND YOU ARE HIT BY A PIECE OF THIS “FALLOUT”.   NO ONE MEANT FOR YOU TO GET HURT, YET YOU DID AND IT WAS AT NO FAULT OF YOUR OWN.   YOU HAVE A GASH IN YOUR HEAD AND NOW MUST GO TO THE HOSPITAL WHICH WILL COST YOU A FORTUNE.  YOU DID NOTHING TO DESERVE THIS.  LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS FAIR.  PART OF BEING HUMAN IS TO ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES THEY SAY.  OFTEN, HOWEVER, WE ARE NOT THE ONES WHO ARE CAUSING DAMAGE TO OURSELVES AND HAVE NO ILL WILL IN OUR HEARTS.   THESE SITUATIONS CAN ALSO HAPPEN IN RELATIONSHIPS WHERE WE GET HURT DUE TO NOTHING WE HAVE DONE BY THE VERY PERSON WE CARED FOR.  THIS IS “FALLOUT” AGAIN AND IS A PART OF LIFE.   LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE MEANING OF FALLOUT IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION.   

WEBSTER DEFINITION, FALLOUT-(PARTIAL).  1.  THE ADVERSE SIDE EFFECTS OF A SITUATION. 

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION-1. CONSEQUENCES WHICH MAY OR MAY NOT BE CAUSED BY ACTIONS YOU ARE DIRECTLY INVOLVED WITH AND YOU BECOME A VICTIM THROUGH NO FAULT OF YOUR OWN.  HOMEOWNER’S INSURANCE CALLS THESE EVENTS “ACTS OF GOD”. 

WEATHER IS A GREAT EXAMPLE THAT DEMONSTRATES THE EFFECTS OF FALLOUT IN ONE’S LIFE.  IF WE GO BACK MANY YEARS AGO, WE MAY VERY WELL REMEMBER “HURRICANE KATRINA”. WHICH HIT LAND AND DEMOLISHED MUCH OF NEW ORLEANS.   THIS WAS NOT INTENTIONAL IN ANY WAY ON YOUR PART TO GET THE “FALLOUT” OF THIS SITUATION.  YET, CONSEQUENCES DO OCCUR THAT DO AFFECT AND CAUSE GREAT UPHEAVAL IN YOUR LIFE.   

SADLY, OVER A PERIOD OF TIME, YOU WILL GET YOUR LIFE BACK TO SOME SEMBLANCE OF NORMAL.  IT WILL TAKE TIME BUT YOU WILL HAVE THE POWER WITH WILL AND DETERMINATION TO GET YOUR WORLD BACK AS YOU ONCE KNEW IT.  LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THIS CURRENT PANDEMIC GOING ON NOW WELL OVER A YEAR.  DUE TO AN UNDERLYING CONDITION, I STAY HOME MORE, OFTEN THEN I WOULD WANT TO FOR SAFETY REASONS TO AVOID THE POTENTIAL OF GETTING EXPOSED TO COVID-19.

I STILL REMEMBER MEETING SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME AND HUGGING THEM HELLO AT A SOCIAL EVENT.  TODAY, IF I DID THIS, THE ONE  PERSON I TRIED TO HUG MIGHT CRINGE.  THIS MAKES FOR A LONELY LIFE.  I FIND MYSELF MORE DOWN THAN EVER DUE TO ISOLATION I WOULD NOT CHOOSE NOW BUT ONCE APPRECIATED AFTER WORKING ALL DAY AROUND A SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT, (REAL ESTATE).  NOW, I WOULD GIVE SO MUCH JUST TO GO BACK AND HAVE THINGS BE NORMAL.  I CAN’T WAIT TO GET MY VACCINE FOR COVID-19.   THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES WHEN WE DON’T WEAR A MASK AS RECOMMENDED, AND THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES WHEN WE DON’T PRACTICE SOCIAL DISTANCING.  AGAIN, THIS IS FALLOUT.  

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SURRENDING FOR VICTORY

Surrender is the bravest and most lucid thing a human ever does and that’s why it’s so precious to the Divine.
-Andrew Harvey

Does God hate me?

I used to think this quite often when I was younger and didn’t get my way. When I talk about not getting my way, I’m not implying desires like wanting a million dollars or a wanting a mansion.

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METAPHYSICS

METAPHYSICS IS A BIG SUBJECT FOR ONE DAILY WISDOM WORD, BUT NEVER-THE-LESS, MANY OF US ARE CURIOUS EXACTLY WHAT METAPHYSICS IS.  LET US START OFF WITH THE DEFINITION OF METAPHYSICS.  TODAY WE WILL DISCUSS THE MEANING OF METAPHYSICS IN THE WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORD MEANING.  

FIRST, THE WEBSTER DICTIONARY MEANING OF METAPHYSICS-THE BRANCH OF PHILOSOPHY THAT DEALS WITH THE FIRST PRINCIPAL OF THINGS, INCLUDING ABSTRACT CONCEPTS SUCH AS BEING, KNOWING, SUBSTANCE, CAUSE, IDENTITY, TIME AND SPACE.  2.  ABSTRACT THEORY OF TALK WITH NO BASIS IN REALITY.

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION-1.  A BELIEF SYSTEM GIVING EXPLANATION TO ENERGY OR KINETICS IN NAYURE PRODUCING RESULTS EXTERNALLY.  2.  THE UNSEEN, AND ABILITY OF OUR MIND AND ENERGY AND SPACE IN OUR UNIVERSE THROUGH INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL THOUGHTS GIVING WAY TO ALL IN OUR UNIVERSE  THIS SOUNDS A BIT VAGUE, I KNOW SO I HAVE DONE A BIT OF RESEARCH FOR A BETTER DEFINITION.  MANY PEOPLE FEEL METAPHYSICS HAVE GREAT POWER IN LIFE AND IT IS A BRANCH OF PHILOSOPHY AS A WHOLE EXPLANATION FOR HOW THINGS WORK IN NATURE, REALITY.  THIS INCLUDES THE FUNDAMENTAL NATURE OF REALITY INCLUDING THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MIND AND MATTER.  

WHEN WE DIG DEEPER INTO THE MEANING OF “METAPHYSICS”, IT IS DIVIDED INTO THREE BRANCHES.  ONE OF THESE BRANCHES IS BEING RELIGIOUS METAPHYSICS.  THE RELIGIOUS METAPHYSICAL BELIEF SYSTEM EXPLAINS  EVOLVED NATURAL THEOLOGY.  THIS IS BEST SUMMED UP BY THE FOLLOWING:  THE METAPHYSICAL BELIEVER  WHO GETS THEIR BELIEFS FROM MANY DIFFERENT SOURCES.  SOME OF THESE BELIEFS COME FROM MANY DIFFERENT SUBSETS OF BELIEFS INCLUDING KNOWLEDGE GAINED FROM THE QUR’AN, WHICH IS  COMMONLY THOUGHT OF AS THE ISLAMIC BIBLE, BUDDHIST BELIEFS, AND EXPLANATIONS THAT ARE ALTERNATIVE FOR THE WORLD AND WHAT EXISTS BEYOND IT, CONTRASTING TO CHRISTIANITY OR A TRADITIONAL BELIEF SYSTEM.

THE SECOND BRANCH OF METAPHYSICS IN ONTOLOGY WHICH IS A BROAD FIELD OF METAPHYSICS CONCERNED WITH OUR UNDERSTANDING OF THE FUNDAMENTAL ISSUES OF THE NATURE OF REALITY.  THIS IS THE TERM USED TO BEST EXPLAIN GENERAL METAPHYSICS.   THE THIRD ASPECT OF METAPHYSICS IS “PHYSICAL METAPHYSICS.” WHICH INCLUDES EPISTEMOLOGY WHICH IS CONCERNED WITH THE NATURE OF KNOWLEDGE.

THERE IS SO MUCH MORE INFORMATION ABOUT METAPHYSICS DEPENDING ON WHICH BRANCH YOU WANT INFORMATION ON. TO GO INTO MORE DETAIL THAN I HAVE, WOULD BE TO WRITE A DISSERTATION.  I DO THINK IT IS IMPORTANT TO GAIN KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE TERM, “METAPHYSICS”AND WHERE IT STARTED.  THE TERM METAPHYSICS BEGAN FROM A PHILOSOPHER WHO STUDIED ARISTOTLE’S BELIEFS.  IF YOU WANT MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OVERALL METAPHYSICS, VISIT WIKIPEDIA WHICH DELVES MUCH DEEPER INTO THESE THREE BRANCHES.  THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING.  I WOULD LOVE YOUR OPINIONS, ADDITIONS OF INFORMATION ABOUT METAPHYSICS BENEATH THIS ARTICLE.  COULD THE ANSWERS BE MORE SIMPLE THAN THIS?  I COULD NOT SAY.  I ONLY KNOW MY BELIEF SYSTEM AND FORCING OTHERS TO BELIEVE AS I DO IS WRONG IF I EXPRESS MY BELIEFS TO CHANGE THE MIND OF ANOTHER PERSONS BELIEF SYSTEM.   

I BELIEVE KNOWLEDGE IS POWER AND TO IGNORE METAPHYSICS WOULD NOT BE WISE AS ANY KNOWLEDGE WE SHOULD BE OPEN TO.  METAPHYSICS IS SOMETHING I STILL DON’T FULLY UNDERSTAND AND RELIGIOUS METAPHYSICS IS NOT WHAT I PICK FOR MY PERSONAL FAITH.  I DON’T NECESSARILY WANT TO RULE METAPHYSICS OUT BECAUSE I FEEL MANY OF ITS PRINCIPALS CAN WORK COHESIVELY WITH MY PERSONAL BELIEFS.  SOMETIMES LIFE OR KNOWLEDGE IS NOT AGAINST WHAT WE BELIEVE;  INSTEAD, OUR KNOWLEDGE WE GAIN CAN BE USED FOR ENLIGHTENMENT IN MANY CAPACITIES.  THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING.  SAMANTHA LEBOEUF/DAILY WISDOM WORDS

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OPPORTUNITIES

WHEN OPPORTUNITIES PRESENT THEMSELVES, THEY AREN’T ALWAYS GLARING or OBVIOUS…Sometimes opportunities present themselves in small ways.  Perhaps you’re looking for a job and have been for a while.  You might see “pieces” of an opportunity before the full opportunity is revealed, or you might miss the opportunity presented altogether.  Often, opportunities start of as a “hint” or show just part of what will fully be revealed over time.  What does this mean to us? 

Opportunities are often missed because we first did not clearly ask or affirm what kind of opportunity we are searching for.  Opportunities come into clear focus when they are presented only if we have asked for them to begin with or are open to them.  We miss opportunities often because of our awareness level to recognize one.  One way we can be more cognizant when opportunity knocks is to ask the Universe or God for what opportunity we need to start off with.  Asking for the right kind of opportunity we want is most important.  This is the same as setting goals and writing them down on paper.  The more specific we are with our goal or the opportunity we want, the clearer we are able to see these opportunities when they are revealed. 

I remember when I still worked in New Home Sales.  I had been on two different interviews for a community sales manager position for new home builders.  The two companies I interviewed with,  I was sure were the opportunities I had asked for.  My thinking with this kind of career at the time was to avoid builders with too much red tape and corporate structure which can be done by working for a smaller builder. Long story short, one company called me back for a second interview.  The other company didn’t call back at all, and after I left a message with the hiring manager, I was told they offered the position to someone else. 

I began questioning myself and ability.  I knew I had a good resume, with good references, but it seemed to me the universe was not making it any easier.  I had set my goals in writing as I am suggesting we do now.  Remember, I also was specific as possible with what kind of job opportunity  I was looking for. 

A few days later, driving down the road, I noticed a small stick sign advertising condominiums for sale with a local, smaller builder.  I scribbled down the number and tracked down the sales manager to ask if they were hiring.  I was told, “yes, a position just opened up”.  Oddly, it was in a community I had driven by close to my house and it would be working for a smaller builder.  I interviewed, and was hired the next day.  The next five years I broke sales records I never thought could happen and met so many interesting, amazing people. 

After getting the job, I bumped across my notebook used to do my affirmations and goal setting.  Ironically, I had specified  in my wording that I would get a job with a smaller builder.  This company was perfect for me .  I had five years of fortune until health issues forced me to retire from the industry itself.  I want you to remember my story and lessons in it.  First, I set a specific goal or affirmation and wrote this affirmation over and over.  By doing this, I was continually reaffirming my belief that the right opportunity for the right kind of builder would be my opportunity, because I was specific with my goal or affirmation.  I never would have noticed the small stick sign to my left on the sidewalk nearest the road I happened to be driving on.  I never would have even thought to look with this company because they were smaller, just as I specified, so I had not heard of them to research.  The smaller builder, (specified in my affirmation), was preparing to list the position open nearest my home, but had not yet done so.  

Everytime I feel hopeless about something within reason I want to manifest, I still write this goal or affirmation over and over.  The opportunity I asked for would never had been noticed if I wasn’t hypersensitive to what I was specifically asking for.  We miss opportunities daily.  It is often because an opportunity is not always clear or we are not clearing our minds to notice the “hint” we get for the potential opportunity. 

Thanks so much for reading.  Samantha Leboeuf

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Destiny

“We determine our destiny by the actions we take today.”

-Catherine Pulsifer

Since the start of humanity, there has always been a debate about how much control do we have in our lives over our future?

Many have said that fate and destiny cannot be changed no matter what we do.

For example, you could be the safest driver on the road. But a drunk driver or someone running a red traffic light could still hurt you.

Of course, that begs the question that if everything is pre-written for us, what exactly is our role?

I think it’s our actions before and reactions after.

There are things that are out of our control. Perhaps you’ve underestimated how difficult a college exam is.

But you can still go the extra mile and study harder regardless of how easy or hard you think it’ll be so you’re prepared either way.

We cannot control the universe. But the lens size of the telescope we view it through is completely our choice.