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PATTERNS

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OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY IS PATTERNS.  I AM SURE WE HAVE ALL HEARD THE WORD PATTERNS WHEN WE LISTEN TO THE WEATHER AND A HURRICANE BLOWS THROUGH.  MOTHER NATURE HAS PATTERNS.  LIFE ITSELF HAS PATTERNS WE OURSELF CREATE.  WE WILL START OFF WITH THE MEANING OF PATTERNS IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND OUR DAILY WISDOM WORDS DEFINITION. 

WEBSTER DEFINITION OF PATTERNS-1.  A FORM OR MODEL PROPOSED FOR IMITATION;  EXEMPLAR.  2.  SOMETHING DESIGNED AND USED AS A MODEL 

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION OF PATTERNS-A DESIGN OR ORIGIN SUCH AS A DRESS MASS MANUFACTURED WHERE THE FABRIC AND DESIGN REPEATS ITSELF.  2.  REPLICATION OF CELLS IN THE HUMAN BODY. 

LIFE SEEMS TO FOLLOW PATTERNS.  THE EARTH TURNS ON ITS AXIS AROUND AND AROUND, THE SEASON’S OF NATURE HAPPEN AGAIN AND AGAIN. SECONDS AND MINUTES REPEAT THEMSELVES IN TIME AGAIN AND AGAIN AND SO DO WE IN OUR LIFE.  WHAT WE HOPE TO AVOID WITH “PATTERNS” ARE UNHEALTHY.

NOW HOW BEST TO TAKE CARE OF OURSELVES AND OUR PHYSICAL BODIES YET WE DO THINGS TO ABUSE OUR BODY KNOWING WHAT IS BEST.  PATTERNS ARE EITHER HEALTHY OR UNHEALTHY WHEN IT COMES TO THE HUMAN BODY.  FOR EXAMPLE, ONCE YOU GET INTO A PATTERN TO WORK OUT, THIS PATTERN TENDS TO REPEAT ITSELF.  I BELIEVE PATTERNS PLAY A MAJOR ROLE IN OUR LIFE AS WE LIVE AND BREATHE.  IF YOU ARE A HEALTHY EATER, CHANCES ARE YOU WILL EAT HEALTHY EVERY DAY. 

INTERESTINGLY, ONCE WE BREAK OUR PATTERN, IT SEEMS NATURAL TO RETURN TO IT SO IF WE HAVE UNHEALTHY PATTERNS IT CAN DAMAGE US OR OUR LIFE.  ADDICTION IS A VERY IMPORTANT THING WE ALL CREATE PATTERNS WITH.  ONCE WE ARE IN THE “HABIT OF SOMETHING”, WITHOUT ACTIVE THOUGHT MONITORING IF WE WISH TO CHANGE THIS PATTERN, WE SHOULD REALIZE THAT CHANCES ARE GOOD WE WILL FALL OFF THE WAGON AND RETURN TO THIS UNHEALTHY, DANGEROUS PATTERN.  LIFE IS FULL OF PATTERNS.  WE DELIBERATELY BUILD HEALTHY HABITS LEADING TO PATTERNS.  WITHOUT REALIZING IT, WE ALSO DEVELOP UNHEALTHY PATTERNS.  WE MAY KNOW THESE HABITS OR PATTERNS WHICH REPLICATE SUCH AS A VIRUS OVER AND OVER MUST BE CHANGED. 

THIS IS WHY WE HAVE DEVELOPED A VACCINE FOR THE CORONAVIRUS WHICH IS BASED OF CELLS REPLICATING THEMSELVES IN AN UNHEALTHY WAY, CREATING A PATTERN CAUSING US TO GET ILL.  PATTERNS ARE A PART OF OUR EVERYDAY LIFE.  THEREFORE, THE PATTERNS WE CAN SET ALONG WITH GREAT HABITS EVEN WHEN WE WRITE, BY STICKING TO A SCHEDULE BECOME PATTERNS OVER TIME THAT WE SHOULD STICK TO.  THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING ABOUT PATTERNS TODAY.  SAMANTHA LEBOEUF              HTTPS://WWW.DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM            (JOIN OUR WRITING  VISIT OUR WEBSITE) AT ABOVE WEBSITE ADDRESS!  $10, LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP!!! NO DUES!!

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RESPONSIBILITY

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TODAY’S DAILY WISDOM WORD IS RESPONSIBILITY.  AT WHAT POINT DO WE AS MATURE ADULTS TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR ACTIONS?  AT WHAT POINT DO WE BECOME THE ONES RESPONSIBLE FOR SOMETHING THAT IS WRONG? 

YOU MAY FIND IT FASCINATING TO LEARN THAT THERE ARE INDIVIDUALS OUT THERE INCAPABLE OF TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS.  THESE INDIVIDUALS SIMPLY CAN’T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WRONGDOING.   

THIS HAS TO DO WITH THE WAY THEY VIEW WHO THEY ARE.  TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR SOMETHING, WOULD ALSO MEAN TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR OURSELVES AND USING OUR INTERNAL  “TRUTH CHECKER”.   THESE INDIVIDUALS  WOULD HAVE TO TAKE OWNERSHIP OR RESPONSIBILITY AND BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR ACTIONS THEY SIMPLY CAN’T ACCEPT THEMSELVES CAPABLE OF BEING ACCOUNTABLE FOR.  THEY DO NOT WANT TO SEE THIS TRUTH AS THEY VIEW IT AS A REFLECTION UPON WHO THEY ARE INSTEAD OF ACCEPTING OUR HUMAN SIDE AND OUR CAPABILITY TO MAKE A MISTAKE. 

TO SEE THEMSELVES IN THE KIND OF LIGHT TRUTH WOULD REVEAL IS SIMPLY TOO MUCH FOR THEIR EGO AND PRIDE. SADLY, TAKING RESPONSIBILITY WHEN WE ARE IN THE WRONG IS PART OF BEING AN ADULT.  TAKING RESPONSIBILITY MEANS THESE INDIVIDUALS WILL HAVE TO SEE THE TRUTH ABOUT THEIR FLAWS AS HUMAN BEINGS AND THEY SIMPLY ARE NOT CAPABLE OF DOING THIS. WHY?  FIRST, IT REQUIRES RIGOROUS HONESTY ABOUT WHO WE ARE AS INDIVIDUALS AND THESE PERSONALITIES ARE INCAPABLE OF LOOKING AT THE TRUTH REGARDING THEIR CHARACTER WHICH ALLOWS THEM TO LIE TO THEMSELVES ABOUT WHO THEY ARE AND OTHERS AS WELL.  WHO THEY ARE IS NOT WHO THEY SEE THEMSELVES AS AND THE IMAGE THEY DO SEE, IS DISTORTED.  BEFORE GOING ANY FURTHER, LET US TAKE A LOOK AT WHAT THE WORD RESPONSIBILITY ACTUALLY MEANS IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION. 

WEBSTER DEFINITION OF RESPONSIBILITY-1.   THE STATE OR FACT OF BEING ACCOUNTABLE OR TO BLAME FOR SOMETHING.  2.  A THING THAT ONE IS REQUIRED TO DO AS PART OF A JOB, ROLE, OR LEGAL OBLIGATION.  3.  A MORAL OBLIGATION TO BEHAVE CORRECTLY TOWARD OR IN RESPECT OF.

DAILY WISDOM WORD MEANING OF RESPONSIBILITY-1.  BEING ABLE TO HAVE ENOUGH MATURITY NO MATTER HOW BAD FACING THE TRUTH ABOUT THEMSELVES  IS IF THEY ARE CAPABLE OF ACCOUNTABILITY DOING SO AND HAVING ENOUGH RESPECT FOR ANOTHER TO ACCEPT AND FACE THE TRUTH ABOUT THE RESPONSIBILITY THEY HAD FOR SOMETHING GONE WRONG.  WHEN ONE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR A WRONGDOING TO OTHERS OR WRONGDOING HURTING THEMSELVES.   NOONE HAS EVER SAID TAKING RESPONSIBILITY AND OWNERSHIP FOR WHAT HAS GONE WRONG IF YOU CREATED THIS PROBLEM INTENTIONALLY OR UNINTENTIONALLY WOULD BE EASY.  PART OF BEING AN ADULT IS BEING ABLE TO BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR WRONGDOING WHEN THEY ARE AT FAULT.  IT IS DIFFICULT TO DO THIS.  IT IS SO DIFFICULT IN FACT, PEOPLE GO TO MANY LENGTHS TO COVER UP THEIR PART IN WHATEVER THE WRONGDOING WAS ESPECIALLY WHEN THE ROLE THEY PLAYED MADE THEM FULLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE ISSUE.  THEY WILL LIE, CREATE STORIES OF FALSEHOOD, CHEAT, STEAL, LIE TO THEMSELVES, DECEIVE, AND GO TO EXTREME LENGTHS TO AVOID THE TRUTH ABOUT WHO THEY ARE AS PEOPLE. 

WHAT THEY DO NOT REALIZE IS THEY MAKE THEMSELVES LOOK WORSE TO OTHERS AS THE TRUTH IS USUALLY REVEALED. THEY END UP THINKING EVEN LESS OF THEMSELVES WITH THE LIES THEY  TELL TO AVOID THE ACCOUNTABILITY OF THE ISSUE THEY CAUSED COME TO LIGHT.  THEY LOOK WORSE THAN THEY WOULD HAVE IF THEY HAD ASSUMED RIGHTFUL OWNERSHIP OF WHAT THEY ARE ACCOUNTABLE FOR AT THE ONSET OF THEIR MISTAKE WHICH BECOMES INTENTIONAL WHEN THEY LIE ABOUT IT. 

THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING ABOUT RESPONSIBILITY TODAY AND WHAT IT REALLY MEANS.  ONE LAST THING I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE IS IF A PERSON IS WILLING TO LIE INTENTIONALLY TO THEMSELVES THIS MEANS THEY ARE CAPABLE OF MANY OTHER THINGS THAT CAN BE FAR WORSE THAN DENIABILITY.  DON’T BE ANGRY WITH THEM IF YOU ARE A VICTIM OF THEIR LIES.  PRAY THEY GET HELP.  SAMANTHA LEBOEUF/DWW

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