ATTACHMENT

OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY IS ATTACHMENT.  THIS POST FOCUSES ON MATERNAL BONDING BETWEEN CHILD AND CAREGIVER AND THE OUTCOMES OF IMPROPERLY BONDING OR ATTACHING TO  A CAREGIVER.  ATTACHMENT DISORDER IS THE OUTCOME OF UNHEALTHY BONDING AS A BABY WITH A CAREGIVER.  BONDING AND ATTACHMENT ARE CRUCIAL AND NECESSARY FOR ALL SPECIES.  HUMAN BEINGS, ESPECIALLY … Read more

PRINCIPLES DO WE COMPROMISE THEM?

Our principles are formed partly from our own personal belief system and partly from the role models we have and who we are. Do we compromise them occasionally? It is never a good idea to compromise the core of who we are, or who we are morphing into.

WOUNDS (WHAT DO PHYSICAL WOUNDS AND EMOTIONAL WOUNDS HAVE IN COMMON?)

Physical wounds and emotional wounds share more in common than you may think. We can’t bury our emotional abuse and hope it goes away. It does not and that emotional abuse will surface again.

VULNERABILITY- IS IT A STRENGTH OR WEAKNESS?”

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VULNERABILITY AND HOW IT APPLIES ITSELF IN A SAFE, SUCCESSFUL LOVE RELATIONSHIP

DETOURS “GETTING BACK ON TRACK AFTER UNANTICIPATED LIFE EVENTS”

ONE OF THE EASIEST THINGS IN LIFE IS TO SET GOALS.  ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS IN LIFE IS TO FOLLOW THEM WITHOUT A DETOUR OF SOME KIND.  WHAT CAUSES US TO “TAKE A DETOUR” FROM REACHING OUR DREAMS AND GOALS?  IT MIGHT SURPRISE YOU TO KNOW DETOURS ARE VERY COMMON, AND WHEN THEY OCCUR, … Read more

CONFUSION “MEDICAL REASONS WE FEEL CONFUSED, A SYMPTOM OF DEMENTIA”

OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY IS CONFUSION.  WHY DO WE FEEL CONFUSED, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT INVOLVES MAKING A DECISION?  IS EXPERIENCING CONFUSION OFTEN, A SIGN OF AN UNDERLYING CONDITION MEDICALLY OR PSYCHOLOGICALLY?  SOMETIMES, EXPERIENCING CONFUSION IS PERFECTLY NORMAL, ESPECIALLY WHEN WE HAVE TO MAKE A TOUGH CHOICE!  THERE ARE TWO DIFFERENT ANSWERS TO A PROBLEM … Read more

COINCIDENCES

OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY IS “COINCIDENCES.”  THE FIRST THING THAT I ALWAYS LIKE TO ASK SOMEONE WHEN HEADED IN THIS DIRECTION, IS, “DO YOU BELIEVE IN COINCIDENCES”?  THERE ARE TWO SCHOOLS OF THOUGHT ON THIS SO THE BEST THING I CAN DO IS PRESENT YOU WITH THESE THOUGHT PROCESSES ABOUT COINCIDENCES AND SEE WHICH … Read more

SENSITIVITY

OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD TODAY IS SENSITIVITY.  “BEING SENSITIVE” CAN BE BOTH POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE.  WHEN I THINK OF SENSITIVITY, I DO THINK OF MYSELF BEING OVERLY SENSITIVE.  IT IS HARD WHEN YOU ARE SENSITIVE AS A CHILD, AND PERHAPS YOU GREW UP WITH A PARENT WHO WAS NOT SENSITIVE BY NATURE.  THIS DESCRIBES MY … Read more