ALONENESS

TODAY’S DAILY WISDOM WORD WILL BE ALONENESS.  BEING ALONE IS SOMETHING WE NORMALLY DON’T GET ENOUGH OF.  HOWEVER, DUE TO THE CURRENT SITUATION WITH THE COVID-19 VIRUS, WE NOW FIND IT NECESSARY TO BE ALONE.  IF YOU LIVE ON YOU OWN, THIS MAY BE DIFFICULT.  THERE IS SOMETHING TO BE SAID FOR HUGS AND KISSES AND MIXING WITH LOVED ONES.  NOW, WE ARE UNDER QUARANTINE AND SOCIAL DISTANCING IS NECESSARY TO STOP THE VIRUS FROM SPREADING. 

WE MAY ALSO LIVE WITH SOMEONE WHO WE FIND OURSELVES SPENDING TOO MUCH TIME WITH.  WE MAY FIND WE NEED ISOLATION FROM OUR CURRENT SITUATION, WHILE FEELING ALONENESS FOR OUR LOVED ONES.  I PERSONALLY FIND MYSELF CONCERNED ABOUT MY 80 YEAR OLD MOTHER.  SHE IS ALONE AND DOES FINE WITH THIS.  HOWEVER, SHE IS USED TO TRAVELING QUITE FREQUENTLY TO VISIT MY YOUNGER AND OLDER SISTER IN CALIFORNIA AND WE ARE USED TO BEING ABLE TO SEE EACH OTHER.  NOW IS THE TIME TO PICK UP THOSE HOBBIES YOU LET GO OF BECAUSE NORMALLY WE DO NOT HAVE TIME TO PRACTICE AND ENJOY THEM. 

LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE DEFINITION OF ALONENESS IN THE WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORDS DEFINITION.

WEBSTER DICTIONARY MEANING-HAVING NO ONE ELSE PRESENT.  ON ONE’S OWN. 

DAILY WISDOM WORDS DEFINITION-ALONENESS IS SOLITUDE TO BEGIN WITH AND LONELINESS OVER AN EXTENDED PERIOD OF TIME.  WE ALL HAVE A CHOICE.  MAKE THE RIGHT ONE IF YOU WANT TO STAY AS MENTALLY HEALTHY AS POSSIBLE. 

 

NOW IS THE TIME ESPECIALLY NOT TO PANIC.  THERE IS A CERTAIN FEELING OF FEAR WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT ALONENESS COULD MEAN IN THE NEAR FUTURE.  I WORRY ABOUT THE NEXT TIME I WILL BE ABLE TO TRAVEL TO SEE MY DAUGHTER, SON-IN-LAW AND GRANDCHILD.  I LIVE 20 MINUTES NEAR MY SON AND HIS FIANCE, YET WE CANNOT SEE THEM.  THERE IS A FEELING OF ISOLATION WHEN WE THINK ABOUT THIS.  THERE IS ALSO THE FEELINGS WE HAVE OF PANIC WHICH WE NEED TO CONTAIN.  THE STRONGEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE IS TO STAY IN THE PRESENT.  WE CANNOT CONTROL THE FUTURE, AND WE CAN’T CHANGE THE PAST.  

IF YOU ARE ALONE, AND YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK WITH, DAILY WISDOM WORDS HAS A RETIRED PSYCHOLOGIST ON OUR WRITING STAFF NAMED DR. SHANNI DOVER.  SHE CAN REFER YOU TO NEEL, (THE WISDOMOLOGY PAGE ON OUR WEBSITE) OR MYSELF (WE ARE MENTAL HEALTH ADVOCATES. THE WEBPAGE YOU WANT TO VISIT AFTER YOU JOIN, IS DAILY WISDOM WORDS.COM/WISE-ADVICE.   IT IS $5 RIGHT NOW TO JOIN DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM AND COUNSELING FOR YOU IS PART OF YOUR MEMBERSHIP.  THERE ARE ALSO FACEBOOK SUPPORT GROUPS, PRAYER GROUPS ONLINE, AND PLACES ONLINE TO GET HELP.  WE TRULY ARE HERE FOR YOU.  THANKS SO MUCH FOR READING,  SAMANTHA LEBOEUF/DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM/ALONENESS

 

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Andy
Andy
6 months ago

Thank you for reaching out to everyone . For me I wish for me time when your stuck in a turbulent relationship. Find time to perhaps reflect the past and project the future

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