Dear friends,
I was all set to upload the next part of yesterday’s post when there came a roadblock, albeit a postive one.
A male friend of mine who was a victim of domestic violence agreed to tell his story anonymously.
As I mentioned in yesterday’s post, the second part is exclusively focused on male victims so when my friend finally agreed (with two days of gentle coaxing) I thought it would be foolish not to include it.
His courage to speak out also inspired me to write about an isolated incident I was involved in nearly twelve years ago which I have never spoken about to anyone before.
As always, thank you for reading and stay tuned,
Neel
Domestic violence needs to be addressed when it comes to females being the abuser in the situation. My brother’s wife abuses not only him but the kids physically and mentally. She has the system manipulated to believe my brother is the aggressor. It is very sad to watch the kids scream and cry to be with us and not want to be left with her. She self medicates them to sleep and has a history of picking Jayden up by his hair and throwing him into walls he is only four. If my brother steps in she calls the cops or runs out of the house screaming he is beating her resulting in my brother being arrested. She play’s mind games with the four year old twins one in particular is they have a choice between two options to pick something to do. If they choose the wrong thing that she does not want to do at that moment she begins to yell at them and scream how they chose wrong. Her intent is always to make them cry and it is very sad. My brother took them shopping and got costumes she made them back to the store. My brother has been in recovery and learning how to walk again after braking his back in Aug of this year. Her ways to manipulate and deceive are incredible. She stayed by his side the whole time he was in recovery in the hospital posting on facebook as if she cared. My concern with females like her are they get away with murder and worse. They mold the brains of serial killers like Kemper. I hope people start to recognize these females and stop them. I hope and pray to God my nieces and nephew get the proper help they need because god knows the system has failed them horribly.