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DISAGREEMENTS

DISAGREEMENTS

Why do we have disagreements?  At what point do they spin out of control and become arguments?  Before we answer these questions, let’s take a look at the meaning of disagreements in our Webster Dictionary.

Disagreements-1.  Lack of consensus or approval.  2.  Lack of consistency or correspondence.  

Daily Wisdom Words Definition of Disagreements-inability to reach a compromise or resolve issues peacefully.

Disagreements are the preliminary step before full blown arguments.  Disagreements start when the kindness leaves the verbiage between two people who are having a dispute of some kind.  Disagreements need to be stopped 99% of the time because it isn’t productive to take the conversation to the argument level.  I want to talk about disagreements we have in our personal relationships.   This seems to be where the majority of the problem where disagreements are used for power plays or some other reason that isn’t above board with integrity.  Disagreements start when each party refuses to take responsibility for their emotions and truly feel they are in the right instead of taking responsibility for their feelings and emotions which is what adults do.  To resolve a dispute the best thing one can do if the issue really is what is being portrayed on a surface level to the other party is to have Conversations like this which needs to be started by asking the other party for permission to speak.

Asking for permission to have productive dialogue is a great way to steer the conversation back to  some form of normalcy.  Once you have permission and the floor is yours, start the conversation by taking responsibility for your feelings.  A great way to do this is to start your sentences off with these words:  “I think”, “I feel”,  “I chose to”.  This takes the pressure off the other party to respond in a defensive manner, especially if you both have talked about how you will handle disagreements prior to having this one.  

Healthy couples usually have a game plan they stick to and have discussed how they will deal with arguments when they have to.  Disagreements don’t have to be non-productive.  In fact, they can be healthy if disagreements follow the platform I have just gone over with from the beginning or start of the disagreement.  

Once one party has spoken their peace, the other party in the disagreement should do the same, stating their feelings taking responsibility for those feelings when communicating those feelings on their end. 

These are just a few constructive thoughts on dealing with disagreements and there are many more productive avenues to use to avoid the next step of a disagreement escalating into an argument.  Thank you for reading about disagreements today.  Have a beautiful and blessed day!!  

When your finished reading this, scroll down beneath it to the “join the discussion box” and leave a comment on your thoughts about disagreements and what methods you’ve found productive to use when dealing with them.  If you don’t wish to leave a comment, write a poem or a quote about disagreements in place of it.  

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Samantha Leboeuf/DWW

Samantha Leboeuf-founder/daily wisdom words, LLC
Founder: Daily Wisdom Words, LLC. I love Poetry and am an Author as well.   There is a lot of meaning in the title of my book, Daily Wisdom Words, Volume l. My previous experience is in Sales and Marketing. Previously, I was in charge of Development through the Marketing and Sales of New Homes' in new home communities for close to 20 years.  I was a licensed Real Estate Broker selling/listing homes in the Colorado market.  While doing this, I hosted a cable network show called, "From Trees to Keys", my portion for Colorado Living Inc.. I enjoyed creating interview questions, working for Developers of New Home Communities, hosting Live on actual construction sites, describing and displaying on television camera various stages of construction as the home was built from start to finish. I interviewed various land developers, New Home Builders, Real Estate Brokers, and other people in the Real Estate Business for one year. Previous Experience: I was licensed through the "Securities and Exchange Commission" as a Principal for Limited Partnerships and sold them as well. I held a Series 22, 63, as well as License, to manage a brokerage firm called a series 39. I enjoyed running a small branch office of an Oil and Gas Company in Colorado for approximately one year. Hobbies: I have always loved Poetry and Writing.  I was declared "Permanently Disabled" due to Breast Cancer and CRPS-(Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome).  I began focusing on my writing. I volunteered for an online poetry community,  "Realistic Poetry" for approximately six months. I decided to start Daily Wisdom Words, LLC after volunteering for an online poetry community and thinking of ways that I would improve this concept and offer something for every KIND of #Writer:  Authors, Bloggers, Poets, Songwriters, Original Quote Creatives, and short story writers. I have two grown children, a son, 33, and a daughter 31,  who lives in Idaho with her husband. They have a son, my first grandchild who will be three years old, soon!  They welcomed their second child, Easton Jay into the world, 5/4//2021. Updates are necessary as my son is now married to my lovely daughter-in-law who is awesome.  She just gave birth to their first son on 5/5/2021, who is so beautiful having the name Logan James Leboeuf. This is her and my son's first child.  Hard to believe their child has a birthday one day ahead of my daughter and son-in-law's second child, Little E.  So exciting!!  I love children! Thanks so much for reading!  We humbly love this community and the members who are part of it. We think of ourselves as a family, and every member makes up part of it.  Please view our website, dailywisdomwords.com fully as it is constantly changing!!  We are always adding new prompts, and new content, and are so very proud to be debuting with our first podcast, "Daily Wisdom Words Podcast."  Episode #101 with Dr. Dream, Kelly Sullivan Walden.  She will be our first guest.  Please watch as it airs 6/12/2021 June 12, 2021 9:00 am pacific time.  Thank you in advance if you are new to daily wisdom words, and welcome to the family. Samantha LeBoeuf
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