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SHALLOWNESS

SHALLOWNESS

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO COPE WITH SHALLOWNESS?  WHEN SOMEONE IS SHALLOW, THEY ARE OFTEN NARCISSISTIC.  HOWEVER, IT IS NOT ALWAYS THE TRUTH THAT SHALLOWNESS IS INDICATIVE OF NARCISSISM.  SOMETIMES, A PERSON CAN’T COPE WITH DEVELOPMENT DISORDER.  THEY PERHAPS HAVE BEEN THROUGH PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE THROUGH COUNSELING OR PSYCHIATRIC OR MENTAL HELP.  IF THEY DON’T GET THIS KIND OF HELP OR THE HELP THEY DO GET ISN’T EFFECTIVE, THEY END UP HAVING TO BUILD COPING MECHANISMS.

 YOU MEET THESE INDIVIDUALS AND THEY ARE OFTEN SUCCESSFUL IN A FINANCIAL SENSE BUT THEY ARE UNABLE TO MAKE EMOTIONAL COMMITMENTS.  IN FACT, THEY HAVE DEVELOPED MECHANISMS TO COPE WITH EMOTIONS AND THAT IS TO CONTROL HOW THEY FEEL.  EVEN WHEN THEY DO FALL “IN LOVE” OR FEEL SOMETHING VERY CLOSE TO LOVE, THEY WILL NOT ALLOW THEMSELVES TO FEEL ANYTHING CLOSE TO COMMITMENT.  THEY MAY BE PERFECTLY LOYAL AND PRIDE THEMSELVES ON THIS, THEY FIND THEY CANNOT GO FURTHER!

IF YOU ARE THE ONE WHO FALLS “IN LOVE” WITH SOMEONE WHO IS SHALLOW, THEY SIMPLY ARE INCAPABLE OF TAKING THE RELATIONSHIP FURTHER.  IT IS EXTREMELY HURTFUL TO THE ONE THEY HAVE BEEN INVOLVED WITH, BECAUSE THEY ARE LED TO BELIEVE THROUGH THE PERSON’S WORDS THAT THEY CAN MOVE FORWARD LIKE ANY OTHER PERSON.  HOW DO I KNOW THIS, YOU MAY WONDER?  I HAD A RELATIONSHIP BASED ON SHALLOWNESS.  IT SEEMED LIKE I WAS HEARING AND FEELING THINGS FROM THIS MAN, BUT WHEN THE TIME CAME AFTER THREE YEARS AND MANY LIES OR UNTRUTHS, HE COULDN’T TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP FURTHER, HE WAS UNABLE TO.

AFTER HEARING THAT HE LOVED ME, EVEN TAKING IT TO TALKS OF ENGAGEMENT, I KNEW THAT HIS WORDS WERE THE ONLY THING I WOULD EVER HEAR, NOT WEDDING BELLS.  LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE MEANING OF SHALLOWNESS IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY THAT APPLIES TO WHAT MY MESSAGE IS AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORDS MEANING. 

WEBSTER MEANING OF SHALLOWNESS.  1.  A LACK OF PHYSICAL DEPTH.  LACK OF STRENGTH OR INTENSITY. 

DAILY WISDOM WORDS DEFINITION OF SHALLOWNESS-LACKING IN DEPTH AND EMOTIONAL CAPACITY BUT NOT TO THE DEGREE OF NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER.  YOU COULD POSSIBLY GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE WHO IS SHALLOW AS WELL.

  BE CAREFUL TO WATCH FOR WORDS VERSES ACTION FROM THEM.  OFTENTIMES THESE INDIVIDUALS DO NOT MEAN TO BE HURTFUL.  THEY TRULY “BELIEVE” THEY CAN FOLLOW THROUGH WITH THE RELATIONSHIP AND FEEL SOMETHING CLOSE TO LOVE.  SADLY, WE WANT THIS TO BE TRUE BECAUSE OUR FEELINGS ARE BASED ON DEPTH.  THESE INDIVIDUALS KNOW DEEP INSIDE THEY CAN’T GO TO THE LEVEL OF LOVE YOU ARE CAPABLE OF.  I WISH THEY COULD TOO.  WHAT HAPPENED TO THEM WAS SO HURTFUL, THEY CAN’T GO TO THE LEVEL OF EMOTIONS NECESSARY FOR LONG-TERM  RELATIONSHIPS LEADING TO LIFETIME COMMITMENT.  WE CANNOT MAKE  OTHERS FEEL TO THE DEPTH WE DO, AND WE CAN’T FIX THE DAMAGE DONE FROM CHILDHOOD ON.  THANKS FOR READING….

SAMANTHA LEBOEUF

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