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TIES

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TODAY, OUR DAILY WISDOM WORD IS TIES.   OFTEN TIMES WE HEAR THE PHRASE, “THE TIES THAT BIND”.  OUR LIVES ARE FULL OF TIES, BOTH LITERAL AND METAPHORIC. AS THINGS UNFOLD IN OUR LIFE, SOMETIMES THESE TIES BREAK.  WHEN THIS HAPPENS, IT OFTEN IS FOR THE BEST.  IF YOU BELIEVE IN DESTINY, YOU MAY FIND THIS CONCEPT EASIER TO DIGEST.   

MY THOUGHTS ON THIS ARE ACCURATE FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND WHY CERTAIN THINGS HAPPEN IN LIFE THAT HURT. WE OFTEN DON’T REALIZE THIS UNTIL WE SEE WHERE OUR LIFE HAS GONE DOWN THE ROAD A BIT.  WE WILL THEN LOOK BACK AT THOSE BROKEN TIES AND REALIZE IT WAS NECESSARY FOR US TO BREAK THOSE PREVIOUS TIES IN ORDER TO TIE OUR SHOES AGAIN IN OUR PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES. I BELIEVE LIFE  WORKS THIS WAY TODAY. 

I AM NOT A PSYCHIATRIST.  LOOKING BACK, WHEN I WAS IN COLLEGE, I LOVED DIFFERENT KINDS OF MENTAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL COURSES. I CREATED THEORIES LIKE THIS:  TIES SHOULD ONLY BE KNOTTED AGAIN IF WE “FIT” IN THE CURRENT SHOES LIFE IS ASKING US TO WEAR AND LACE UP OR TIE OR GOD IS.  I OFTEN HAVE WHAT I CALL, AN “AH HA” MOMENT AND REMEMBER WHERE I’VE ONCE BEEN AND THE NECESSITY TO EXPERIENCE THE FEELINGS HAD DURING EVENTS WE’VE EXPERIENCED IN THE PAST. 

THESE ARE THE PAST EVENTS WE EXPERIENCED, WHICH LEAD TO US TAKING THE NEXT STEP IN KNOWLEDGE.  BECAUSE OF THESE EVENTS, WE FINALLY UNDERSTAND WHY WE’VE EXPERIENCED WHATEVER WE DID TO GET  TO THIS NEW STEP EXPERIENCED IN THE PAST.  WE EVOLVE, ESPECIALLY WITH EMOTIONS, AND TIES ARE ALMOST ALWAYS CONNECTING THIS KNOWLEDGE TOGETHER. 

LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE DEFINITION OF TIES THAT APPLY TO THIS POST FROM OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND OUR DAILY WISDOM WORDS MEANING.  1.  TO BRING TOGETHER IN RELATIONSHIP, CONNECT OE UNITE.  FRIENDS WHO WERE TIED TO COMMON INTERESTS.  2.  PEOPLE WHO ARE TIED BY BLOOD OR MARRIAGE. 

DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION-A BASE OF KNOWLEDGE THAT TIES ANOTHER MORE DEFINED PIECE OF LEARNING ONCE WE LEARN THIS BASE.  THESE TIES ARE PART OF A GENERAL PROCESS OR SPECIFIC AREA OF KNOWLEDGE.  TIES ARE AND ALWAYS WILL BE AN IMPORTANT DAILY WISDOM WORDS DEFINITION. 

TIES CAN REPRESENT TIES THAT ARE A PART OF THE STRONGEST RELATIONSHIPS IN LIFE WE WILL EVER HAVE.  TIES ARE A PART OF COMMITMENT OR A COMMITMENT TO LEARN AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE ABOUT OURSELVES AND TAKE SOMETHING IMPORTANT TO US, TO LEARN AS MUCH AS WE CAN IN OUR LIFE COMMITMENT TO LEARN AS MUCH AS WE CAN IN ALL AREAS OF KNOWLEDGE TAKING THE  TIME AND COMMITMENT WITH OUR OWN INTERNAL TIES.  ONE BASE OF KNOWLEDGE TAKES US TO ANOTHER, MORE COMPLICATED KNOWLEDGE AND WITH COMMITMENT, THE TIES CREATED OVER TIME ALLOW US TO BECOME AN EXPERT. 

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HEARTBREAK “DOES OUR HEART REALLY BREAK?

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WE ALL FEEL OR WILL FEEL WE HAVE A BROKEN HEART AT SOME POINT IN OUR LIFE UNLESS WE ARE NOT CAPABLE OF LOVE.  DOES THIS MEAN OUR HEART LITERALLY “BREAKS”?  I DO BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE A FEW SITUATIONS WHERE WE TRULY SEE A BROKEN HEART.  I HAVE SEEN IT HAPPEN WITH SOMEONE OLDER WHOSE PARTNER DIES.  THESE CASES END IN BOTH PEOPLE DYING OVER A PERIOD OF A MONTH AT THE LONGEST. 

THE OTHER PERSON THE PARTNER WAS MARRIED TO, OF COURSE ALSO SHARED THEIR LIFE TOGETHER FOR FIFTY TO SEVENTY YEARS.  THEY JUST CANNOT GET PAST THE MOMENTS, MINUTES, HOURS, AND DAYS LEADING INTO YEARS, DECADES, AND EVEN HALF CENTURIES OF TIME SPENT TOGETHER AND THE LOVE, CHILDREN, GREAT MEMORIES, AND HOPES AND DREAMS SHARED AND LOST OVER THE YEARS.  THEY CANNOT ADJUST BACK TO BEING ALONE.  THIS IS NOT TRUE FOR ALL COUPLES MARRIED THAT LONG. 

I HAVE A FRIEND WHO WAS DATING THIS MAN WHO HAD BEEN PREVIOUSLY MARRIED RIGHT BEFORE HE MET HER FOR MANY YEARS.  SHE WAS SO TORN UP AND HEARTBROKEN AFTER GOING THROUGH A RECENT BREAKUP HERSELF, SHE WAS NOT SURE SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH THIS NEW MAN, SO WHEN HE DECIDED TO GO BACK TO HIS PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP TO SEE IF HE COULD STILL MAKE IT WORK, AND BE THE PERSON HE WAS WITHIN HIS EX-MARRIAGE, AND IRONICALLY, AFTER ONE WEEKEND OF BEING AROUND HIS EX-WIFE HE WENT RIGHT BACK TO MY FRIEND.   HE TOLD MY FRIEND, THAT GOING BACK TO HER ONLY REINFORCED HIS NEW LOVE WITH MY FRIEND.  TODAY THEY ARE MARRIED.   MY POINT IS ALL THE STRINGS AND PREVIOUS ATTACHMENTS WERE NOT STRONG OR LONG ENOUGH TO CAUSE THESE INDIVIDUALS TO HAVE A BROKEN HEART.  THEY CAN LEARN TO LOVE NEW PEOPLE.  IN CASES OF TRUE HEARTBREAK, THE TRUTH IS USUALLY SEEN IN A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT LIGH

THESE COUPLES CAN SEE NO POSSIBILITY OF ANY FUTURE WITH ANYONE AGAIN SO THEY STOP EATING, OR DRINKING WATER AND ARE USUALLY DEAD WITHIN A MONTH OF THE OTHER PERSON DYING WHO WAS THEIR OTHER HALF.  LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE MEANING OF HEARTBREAK IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORDS INFORMATION.  WEBSTER DEFINITION OF HEARTBREAK-1.  OVERWHELMING DISTRESS.  2.  A METEPHORE OR A FEELING OF A BROKEN HEART, OR FEELING OF REJECTION BY A LOVED ONE OF EMOTIONAL DEVASTATION.  DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION OF HEARTBREAK-1.  TWO HEARTS THAT LOVE ONE ANOTHER TO THE DEGREE THEY HAVE MERGED INTO ONE.   BECAUSE THEY HAVE MERGED, VERY MUCH AS TWINS SHARE SOMETHING IN A MOTHER WOMB, THEY HAVE GROWN TO SHARE ONE HEART AND WHEN THE OTHER HALF OF THAT HEART DIES, IT LEAVES THE OTHER PERSON UNABLE TO LIVE ANY KIND OF QUALITY LIFESTYLE BECAUSE THEY SHARE THE HEART AND THEIRS WILL NOT ADJUST AS IT NORMALLY WOULD IN MOST CASES WHERE THE HEARTS HAVE NOT BECOME ADJOINED IN SOME WAY.   

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STILL THE ONE BY ORLEANS

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LYRICS
We’ve been together since way back when
Sometimes I never want to see you again
But I want you to know, after all these years
You’re still the one I want whisperin’ in my ear
You’re still the one I want to talk to in bed
Still the one that turns my head
We’re still having fun, and you’re still the one
I looked at your face every day
But I never saw it ’til I went away
When winter came, I just wanted to go
Deep in the desert, I longed for the snow
You’re still the one that makes me laugh
Still the one that’s my better half
We’re still having fun, and you’re still the one
You’re still the one that makes me strong
Still the one I want to take along
We’re still having fun, and you’re still the one
Changing, our love it comes and goes
Even though we grow, it grows too
You’re still the one that I love to touch
Still the one and I can’t get enough
We’re still having fun, and you’re still the one
You’re still the one who can scratch my itch
Still the one that I wouldn’t switch
We’re still having fun, and you’re still the one
You are still the one that makes me shout
Still the one that I dream about
We’re still having fun, and you’re still the one…
You’re still the one
Yeah, still the one
We’re still having fun
And you’re still the one
Yes you are

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