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HEARTBREAK “DOES OUR HEART REALLY BREAK?

HEARTBREAK                    “DOES OUR HEART REALLY BREAK?

WE ALL FEEL OR WILL FEEL WE HAVE A BROKEN HEART AT SOME POINT IN OUR LIFE UNLESS WE ARE NOT CAPABLE OF LOVE.  DOES THIS MEAN OUR HEART LITERALLY “BREAKS”?  I DO BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE A FEW SITUATIONS WHERE WE TRULY SEE A BROKEN HEART.  I HAVE SEEN IT HAPPEN WITH SOMEONE OLDER WHOSE PARTNER DIES.  THESE CASES END IN BOTH PEOPLE DYING OVER A PERIOD OF A MONTH AT THE LONGEST. 

THE OTHER PERSON THE PARTNER WAS MARRIED TO, OF COURSE ALSO SHARED THEIR LIFE TOGETHER FOR FIFTY TO SEVENTY YEARS.  THEY JUST CANNOT GET PAST THE MOMENTS, MINUTES, HOURS, AND DAYS LEADING INTO YEARS, DECADES, AND EVEN HALF CENTURIES OF TIME SPENT TOGETHER AND THE LOVE, CHILDREN, GREAT MEMORIES, AND HOPES AND DREAMS SHARED AND LOST OVER THE YEARS.  THEY CANNOT ADJUST BACK TO BEING ALONE.  THIS IS NOT TRUE FOR ALL COUPLES MARRIED THAT LONG. 

I HAVE A FRIEND WHO WAS DATING THIS MAN WHO HAD BEEN PREVIOUSLY MARRIED RIGHT BEFORE HE MET HER FOR MANY YEARS.  SHE WAS SO TORN UP AND HEARTBROKEN AFTER GOING THROUGH A RECENT BREAKUP HERSELF, SHE WAS NOT SURE SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH THIS NEW MAN, SO WHEN HE DECIDED TO GO BACK TO HIS PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP TO SEE IF HE COULD STILL MAKE IT WORK, AND BE THE PERSON HE WAS WITHIN HIS EX-MARRIAGE, AND IRONICALLY, AFTER ONE WEEKEND OF BEING AROUND HIS EX-WIFE HE WENT RIGHT BACK TO MY FRIEND.   HE TOLD MY FRIEND, THAT GOING BACK TO HER ONLY REINFORCED HIS NEW LOVE WITH MY FRIEND.  TODAY THEY ARE MARRIED.   MY POINT IS ALL THE STRINGS AND PREVIOUS ATTACHMENTS WERE NOT STRONG OR LONG ENOUGH TO CAUSE THESE INDIVIDUALS TO HAVE A BROKEN HEART.  THEY CAN LEARN TO LOVE NEW PEOPLE.  IN CASES OF TRUE HEARTBREAK, THE TRUTH IS USUALLY SEEN IN A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT LIGH

THESE COUPLES CAN SEE NO POSSIBILITY OF ANY FUTURE WITH ANYONE AGAIN SO THEY STOP EATING, OR DRINKING WATER AND ARE USUALLY DEAD WITHIN A MONTH OF THE OTHER PERSON DYING WHO WAS THEIR OTHER HALF.  LET US TAKE A LOOK AT THE MEANING OF HEARTBREAK IN OUR WEBSTER DICTIONARY AND THE DAILY WISDOM WORDS INFORMATION.  WEBSTER DEFINITION OF HEARTBREAK-1.  OVERWHELMING DISTRESS.  2.  A METEPHORE OR A FEELING OF A BROKEN HEART, OR FEELING OF REJECTION BY A LOVED ONE OF EMOTIONAL DEVASTATION.  DAILY WISDOM WORD DEFINITION OF HEARTBREAK-1.  TWO HEARTS THAT LOVE ONE ANOTHER TO THE DEGREE THEY HAVE MERGED INTO ONE.   BECAUSE THEY HAVE MERGED, VERY MUCH AS TWINS SHARE SOMETHING IN A MOTHER WOMB, THEY HAVE GROWN TO SHARE ONE HEART AND WHEN THE OTHER HALF OF THAT HEART DIES, IT LEAVES THE OTHER PERSON UNABLE TO LIVE ANY KIND OF QUALITY LIFESTYLE BECAUSE THEY SHARE THE HEART AND THEIRS WILL NOT ADJUST AS IT NORMALLY WOULD IN MOST CASES WHERE THE HEARTS HAVE NOT BECOME ADJOINED IN SOME WAY.   

WHETHER WE BELIEVE IN AN ACTUAL “BROKEN HEART” REMAINS TO BE PROVEN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.  I THINK I HAVE SHARED MY VIEWPOINT.  I AM NOW ASKING FOR MY READERS TO SHARE THEIRS.   SCROLL DOWN BENEATH THE WRITING IN THIS ARTICLE, WHERE IS SAYS, “JOIN THE DISCUSSION” AND LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINION.  DO YOU BELIEVE IN A LITERAL BROKEN HEART?  IF YOU DO BELIEVE IN AN ACTUAL BROKEN HEART, DO YOU HAVE ANYH SUPPORTING STORIES SUCH AS SOMEONE WHO DIED SHORTLY AFTER THE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE DIED, SHARE THEM PLEASE!!!  IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE IN A LITERAL BROKEN HEART, PLEASE SHARE THIS AS WELL  YOU MAY NOT BE AWARE OF IT, BUT YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO TWEET OR POST ON FACEBOOK FROM THIS WEBSITE, DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM/BECOME-A-MEMBER.   IT IS AMAZING WHAT YOU CAN DO FROM THIS WEBSITE INCLUDING CREATE YOUR OWN PERSONAL MEDIA PROFILE, UPLOAD A PROFILE PHOTO, SHARE YOUR BIORGRAPHY, TWEET OR POST FROM MOST PAGES WITHIN THE WEBSTIE TO THE PUBLIC THROUGH SOON INSTAGRAM AS WELL.  YOU KNOW THAT IT IS IMPORTANT IF YOU ARE AN AUTHOR, OR POET, YOU MAY ALSO SHARE THE NEED IF YOUR NEW TO THE WRITING COMMUNITY TO REACH OUT TO A VETERAN MEMBER, AND ASK THEM TO MENTOR YOUL.  THEY ARE ALL VERY VERY NICE!  BECAUSE OUR MEMBERS ARE FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD, YOU CAN USE SOME SLEUTHING AND FIND ONE NEAR YOU TO SOME DEGREE.  A FELLOW AUTHOR MAY VERY WELL BE ABLE TO GIVE YOU THE GUIDANCE YOU NEED IF YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE.   YOU CAN DIRECT MESSAGE PRIVATELY BACK AND FORTH WITH ALL MEMBERS, AND STAFF.  DEALING WITH WRITER’S BLOCK?  GO TO OUR WISE ADVICE PAGE AND SET UP AN ADVOCATE COUNSELING APPOINTMENT.   ARE YOU AN AUTHOR OR SONGWRITER, BUT NOT A POET?  YOU MAY WISH TO ORDER A BOOK REVIEW IF YOU ARE AN AUTHOR, OR A CUSTOM POEM AT OUR ONLINE STORE IF YOU ARE NOT A POET!!  OUR RECENT PARTNERSHIP WITH CHATTERBOX WALLS ALLOWS US TO SEND YOU A QUESTIONNAIRE WHICH SPECIFICALLY DEFINES THE PERSON YOU WISH US TO WRITE A POEM ABOUT.  FILL THIS DETAILED FORM OUT.  WE WILL CALL AND DISCUSS IT WITH YOU FOR UP TO A HALF HOUR TO MAKE SURE WE HAVE A CLEAR PICTURE OF THE PERSON YOU WISH US TO WRITE A POEM ABOUT FOR EXAMPLE, YOUR NIECE.  WE WILL WRITE THE POEM AND SEND IT TO YOU.  WE RECOMMEND YOU GO BACK ONLINE AND TOTAL OUT WITH US, AND FINISH PROCESSING YOUR ORDER THROUGH OUR TRUSTED PARTNER, CHATTERBOX WALLS!  CHOOSE FROM A WIDE SELECTION OF SIZES AND HAVE YOUR POEM SET ON CANVAS OR WITHIN A FRAME ON VARIOUS COLORS OF PAPER AND DESIGNS.  CHATTERBOX WILL PROPERPLY PACKAGE YOUR TREASURED GIFT AND SEND IT TO YOUR NIECE.  SHE WILL BE SO HAPPY!!   TAKE PART IN OUR DAILY PROMPTS FOR ALL WRITERS AND BECOME A BETTER WRITER.  READ OUR MENTAL HEALTH ARTICLES. TAKE PART IN A Q AND A AFTER READING WISDOMOLOGY WITH NEEL TRIVEDI.  JOIN NOW FOR $10 FOR A LIFETIME!!   WE SUGGEST VISITING THE WEBSITE TO SIGN UP AT DAILYWISDOMWORDS.COM/BECOME-A-MEMBER!!  JOIN TODAY….IT IS THE BEST INVESTMENT YOU WILL EVER MAKE IN YOUR WRITING CAREER

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Abuh Monday Eneojo (@mondaydpoet)
1 month ago

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