“‘See no scars.’ But it’s all lies. They only check wrists…not thighs.” -UnknownToday happens to be a very special day for me. Not because it’s St. Patrick’s Day although admittedly, its modern day traditions of wearing green, parades, etc do indeed hold a fascination for me. But as most of the world celebrates the inclusion of Christianity in Ireland (and perhaps pinch a friend or two in jest who is not wearing green) I’m celebrating something else: It’s been one whole year since I last cut myself.
Wisdomology
COVID-19: FEARS AND ALLEVIATION
“Action cures fear, inaction creates terror.” -Douglas HortonLast week, I made a pretty big announcement about writing a very special, two-part post on feminism. Unfortunately, due to the widespread panic and stress due to the coronavirus I could not move forward.
MAJOR 2-PART POST ABOUT FEMINISM COMING
“Life is not a competition between men and women. It is a collaboration.” -David Alejandro Fearnhead Hello dear readers, Thank you as always for taking your valuable time to read my posts. I do not have an official post today as there will be a two-part post coming tomorrow and Thursday. The post is about … Read more
SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF
“It’s the little things that are vital. Little things make big things happen.” -John WoodenSweat the small stuff. If you read that phrase, the first thought you’ll have is, he forgot the “don’t” at the beginning of the sentence. But I didn’t.
SMILING – THE EXPOSÉ
“Smiling does not necessarily mean you’re happy. Sometimes it just means you’re strong.” -Nishan PanwarIn the past, I’ve written a post or two about the power of a smile. I talked about how it could make someone’s day and the psychological effects it can have on you even when you’re not really happy. Although that post is quite old now, I recently received a message from a new reader who didn’t agree. Their argument was that why should they fake an emotion? Isn’t the norm today to encourage people to speak up if something’s wrong?
BIRTHDAYS: GOOD OR BAD
“There are two great days in a person’s life – the day we are born and the day we discover why.” -William BarclayToday happens to be my birthday. I, like many others, rejoice in getting birthday wishes, the love of family and friends, parties, etc. In short, I love celebrating.
ACCEPTANCE AND THE AFTERMATH
“Acceptance makes an incredible fertile soil for the seeds of change.” -Steve Maraboli
GIVING THE FINGER(S)
“Just because you can’t see the complete picture, it doesn’t mean it is not there.” -Nara LeeWhat can you do with your fingers? Grip something? Wiggle them? Flip someone off? There is one more thing you can do that is not always a common answer from most people: Create positive energy.
NEED A HUG?
“The best place in the world is inside a hug.” -J QuestHave you received a hug lately? Or gave one? If not, you’re missing out on not only warm and friendly vibes but also a genuine, scientifically proven health benefit.
DEPRESSION NO NO’S
“My silence means I am tired of fighting…” -Aarti KhuranaIn many of my previous posts, I’ve talked about mental illness and depression because it’s a subject that is very personal to me for obvious reasons. However, one topic I have not addressed in detail is for the outsider looking in.
DREAMING AT NIGHT
Dreams are as simple or as complicated as the dreamer. -Brian HerbertCan what you dream at night come true, literally? It’s happened to me a few times. I dreamed a particular occurrence or event and within 48 hours of dreaming it, it unfolded in real life exactly the way it did in my dreams. Am I psychic?
VALENTINE’S DAY
Today is Valentine’s Day or…Extortion Day -Jay LenoIf you’re like me, this is the time of the year when walking into any store and seeing an abundance of Valentine’s Day merchandise makes you sick.
BAD MORNINGS
“Having a bad day? Put your hand on your heart. Feel that? That’s called purpose. You’re alive for a reason.” -UnknownDoes the following scenario sound familiar to you? You sleep through your alarm. You get up to shower and your hot water is off. You burn your breakfast. Nothing seems to go right. In short, you’re having a terrible morning.
SUPERSTITIONS
“Future endeavors with superstitions attached to them have the same probability of coming to fruition that anything else does. Either they’ll come to fruition or they won’t. Had they been anything more or less, the world would be a much different place.” -Excerpt from upcoming short story “Howl of Freedom” by Angie VerhoevenAre you superstitious? Even if you don’t believe in the traditional superstitions like Bloody Mary, black cats crossing your path or the bad luck of breaking a mirror, chances are you still are. If you’ve ever said “bless you” to someone after sneezing to prevent their soul from coming out, that’s a superstition. If you’ve ever said something like “I’m crossing my fingers,” that’s a superstition.
POWER OF THE WRITTEN WORD
“All you have to do is write one true sentence. Write the truest sentence you know.” -Ernest HemingwayOver the past few weeks, life has been a rollercoaster of emotions for me. I guess that’s to be expected because that’s what life is in general; a little bit of this, a little bit of that. With that in mind, the thing that’s kept me going is a major literary projects I’ve been working on for a while now. The further I progressed with that project, the smaller other hurdles seemed. In honor of that feeling and my literary project coming more and more fruition, I’m reposting a post about the benefits of writing. But it’s not simply a copy and paste job as I’m adding additional content to it.
COMBATING WRITER’S BLOCK – PART 2
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside of you.” -Maya AngelouIf you’re a writer, you know this feeling inside out. You open up your laptop ready to write up a storm. Two hours later, your page is still blank. You have writer’s block.
PROCRASTINATION
“Procrastination is the thief of time.” -Edward YoungYou do it. I do it. We all do it at some point in our lives. Some may do it more than others. But the devil called procrastination has visited all of us at least once and usually, multiple times through various trials and tribbulations. How do we combat it?
(LACK OF) COMMUNICATION
“Make sure to text me as a reminder to check Twitter to see tweets about the latest Instagram posts that are being talked about on Facebook.” -Quote from a satirical cartoonIs personal communication dead in the 21st century?
HEARTBREAK – Before & After
“The heart will break but broken lives on.” -Lord ByronA while back ago, when I first started these posts, I had written about having a broken heart.
APOLOGIES/LETTER TO THE READERS
Dear members and readers, Apologies for the lack of posting in recent times. For the past couple of weeks or so, I’ve been severely under the weather with the flu and other illnesses. I happy to say that I’ve got major ideas for some topics in the near future and will resume writing about them … Read more