“There’s a thin line between confidence and arrogance. It’s called humility. Confidence smiles. Arrogance smirks.” -UnknownIn all my articles for this site, I have always sited confidence as a key factor to get ahead in any endeavor. If you don’t believe in yourself, than nobody else will either. But as today’s quote says, there’s a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Once you cross that line, that path that you’re on becomes much more dangerous to tread on with a lot more one-way streets.
Mental Health
MERRY “YOU” & A HAPPY “EXISTENCE”
As you celebrate the holidays, don’t forget to celebrate YOURSELF. -Neel TrivediAs I write this, Christmas is just a few days away. All around my neighborhood and nearby grocery stores, I see some of the brightest and beautiful lights. And that’s certainly a great feeling.
WAIT TILL TOMORROW
“There is no failure except in no longer trying.” -Elbert HubbardImagine this scenario: You’re working on a specific project or endeavor and nothing seems to be going right. Every plan, no matter how analytical when conceived, falls apart. You try and try and try and there’s no hope in sight. In short, you feel you have no option left but to give up.
CARPE SECONDUS
“Carpe Diem” -HoraceFor centuries now, we’ve all heard the term “carpe diem.” But is that enough to live life to the fullest in the 21st century? The term first originated in Roman poet Horace’s poetry collection, The Odes sometime in 23 BC. In context, the full line in which it appeared has been translated as “Seize the day; trust tomorrow e’en as little as you may.”
THE MARRIAGE OF PATIENCE & OPTIMISM
“Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude.” -Joyce MeyerIn a previous post I had talked about the importance of being patient and how what’s meant to be yours will eventually come to you even if it’s later than expected.
IF A TREE FALLS IN THE WOODS
“If a tree falls in the forest and nobody is around to hear it, does it make a sound?” -UnknownThis rhetorical question has been a popular topic of debate and conversation for several centuries. It was first discussed by an Irish philosopher named by George Berkeley around 1710.
CUTTING OUT THE TOXIC
“Remove yourself from people who treat you like your time doesn’t matter, like your feelings are worthless, or like your soul is replaceable.” -s. mcnuttI’ve written about cutting negative people out of your life or at least keeping a social distance (pun intended, ha) in some of my earlier posts. But a tweet I saw this morning made me think a little. A person’s tweet asked what if the toxic comes from a parent and/or an adult child? Should they cut them off?
ASSUMING MAKES AN @$$…
“Before you ‘assume’, try this crazy method called asking.” -UnknownThe year is 2000. I’m in high school. The bell has rung and I’m about to go from choir class to Spanish class. Spanish class has two textbooks which my teacher, Mr. Brown, uses interchangeably. Unfortunately, I’m not sure which one is needed for that particular day. Perhaps Mr. Brown had mentioned it the day before and perhaps he hadn’t. I can’t remember.
Are We There Yet?
Accomplishments will prove to be a journey, not a destination. -Dwight D. EisenhowerAre we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Usually, the aforementioned phrase is associated with a bunch of impatient kids squished together in a car with irritation laden in their voices.
I’M FLAWED…THAT’S OKAY
“Your flaws are perfect for the heart that is meant to love you.” -UnknownI’m flawed. You’re flawed. We’re all flawed and that’s okay. If we weren’t, we wouldn’t be human beings. Being flawed is an inevitable trait since the dawn of time and will be there until all life has perished. So why do we not proclaim it as loudly as we do our talents and skills?
ELECTION ANXIETY & YOU
“Individualism is what makes cooperation worth living.” -Henry FordAs of this writing, (12:51 PM CT) most of America has been glued to their TV sets, phones, computers and/or any other device which will inform them updates about the presidential election. Even those that haven’t have at least been holding their breath and on their toes while going about other daily tasks. And theses emotions are normal as there is no doubt, a lot at stake. But as we all grapple with what I’ve termed “election anxiety,” we should remember that the fate of individual happiness does not, nor should it, begin and end with one person no matter who wins.
DNRS – PART 3 – CONCLUSION
“Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.” -Steve JobsIn my last two articles, I provided a brief history and an introduction of what Dynamic Neural Retraining System (DNRS) exactly is. In this concluding part, I’ll provide feedback from both people I interviewed as well as people who were quoted publicly on whether DNRS proved to be beneficial to them.
DNRS – PART 2 – ORIGIN & HOW IT WORKS
“There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so.” -William ShakespeareIn my previous articles, I had given a brief introduction to Dynamic Neural Retraining System (DNRS). I had talked about what exactly DNRS is and what kind of illnesses it is used to treat, both mental as well as physical. But how exactly does it work and how does one get into it? I should make a disclaimer here and point out that much of this information I talk about in this particular article is compiled from various interviews given by Annie Hopper, the founder DNRS.
DNRS – PART 2 COMING TOMORROW
Dear Members & Readers,
Heartfelt apologies. It’s been a few days late but I finally have the other parts of my article on Dynamic Neural Retraining System (DNRS).
DNRS – PART 1 – INTRODUCTION
“There is no reality, only perception. Identify the filters through which you view the world.” -Dr. PhilWhat is Dynamic Neural Retraining System (DNRS)? Founded by Annie Hopper, a limbic system rehabilitation specialist, DNRS claims to be a neuroplasticity-based treatment method for chronic illnesses, some physical and some psychological. If we break it down, neuroplasticity is basically the functioning of different networks in our brains. These networks allow the brain to grow (or shrink), organize, direct and redirect depending on the environment we’re in at any given time.
DNRS – BIG POST COMING SOON
“It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.” -Henry David ThoreauCan you rewire your brain so that positive thoughts remain on top and negativity remains in the background?
GRATITUDE FOR THE GRANTED – REVISED
“Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has plenty; not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.” -Charles DickensDo you express gratitude as often as you should?
FAITH – RELIGIOUS OR OTHERWISE
“Faith is taking the first step when you don’t see the whole staircase.” -Martin Luther King Jr.Is faith a term that can only be used in the context of religion? Can you have faith without being religious?
THOUGHTS
Life is tough. I believe being aware of our thoughts as we think them can be very powerful in making it easier. Before we can fix an issue, we must identify the problem. Have you ever had a situation that you anticipated would be worse than it actually was after you accomplished it? This starts … Read more